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kiki1 ( member #37184) posted at 4:14 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
((((Sending you so many hugs))))
squid ( member #57624) posted at 4:17 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
Condolences, tsmf. Very sorry for your loss. 
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
2ManyMigraines ( member #61851) posted at 5:04 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
I'm so very sorry.
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
That's so much in such a short period of time. I'm so so sorry.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:37 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
Very sorry for your loss.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Keeping you in my prayers.
(((hugs)))
~ lf
Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 8:52 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 9:28 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
I'm so very sorry.
Take your time in grieving. There is no time line, just you.
Eventually you will look back that this last bit of time and smile with all of the wonderful memories you and your Mom made. Just not right now.
Sending you hugs and strength.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 10:41 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
I am adding my voice to your growing chorus of support.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am holding you in the light. Please know that your mother will never stop loving you, and she will never truly leave you. Grieve, rage, shake your fist at God for taking her away if you need to!
You are still loved. You are still cherished. Do not forget that.
In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:32 PM on Tuesday, February 19th, 2019
((TSMF))) I am so sorry for your loss. 
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 12:51 AM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
I am so very sorry. I am facing the same thing, any day now. My Mom has lived with me since my Dad passed and she's failing daily, not eating and really not drinking much water. It's so hard to watch.
My thoughts are with you.
"Because I deserve better"
Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 3:09 AM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
Truth,
I am so sorry.
Mom first, dad four years later last June.
Heart wrenching, soul breaking.
We know.
Sending love and strength and prayer.
((()))
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
truthsetmefree (original poster member #7168) posted at 3:27 AM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo
Funny thing, I quit being broken when I quit letting people break me.
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 3:29 AM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
I am so very sorry for your loss.
The only person you can change is yourself.
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 5:31 AM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
My Momma passed young. My deepest sympathies.
annanew ( member #43693) posted at 12:07 PM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
I'm so sorry (((truthsetmefree)))
I can imagine that anchorless feeling. I am glad you felt her presence later, and your dad too.
I will give my mom an extra hug tomorrow.
Sending you a big hug too.
Single mom to a sweet girl.
Cephastion ( member #51990) posted at 12:25 PM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
BH-me / WW-(Pyrite)
Left Thanksgiving 2019 w/ unresolved childhood trauma and other general selfishness issues that she refuses to honestly address, resolve,& heal from.--"For where your wealth/treasure is, there will your heart be also."--Yeshua
Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 12:39 PM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
psychmom ( member #47498) posted at 1:36 PM on Wednesday, February 20th, 2019
I'm so very sorry for your losses, TSMF. And the loss of your dear mom on top of all else is heartbreaking. ((((TSMF))))
BS (me); fWH (both 50+; married 20 yr at the time; 2 DD DDay 1- 9/13/2014 (EA)- 3+ yrsDDay 2- 10/24/2014(PA2)-July'14-Sept'14DDay 3- 11/12/2014(PA1)-Oct-Feb '14Reconciled
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 12:21 AM on Thursday, February 21st, 2019
My mother passed just a couple of months ago. I'm still in the tsunami of grief stage too where the waves suck me out to sea and then spit me onto jagged rocks to be rolled over, and over, and over upon. Only to know, as the saltwater flays my wounds, that there's another wave coming.
I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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