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Westway (original poster member #71747) posted at 1:47 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2020
So to prepare for my surgery tomorrow I got laid last night. 
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
Murkywaters ( member #60252) posted at 2:08 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2020
faithfulman ( member #66002) posted at 3:59 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2020
So to prepare for my surgery tomorrow I got laid last night.
Wouldn't it be wrong if somehow your lying and cheating ex-wife found that out?
Westway (original poster member #71747) posted at 4:18 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2020
I just don't care if she does. It felt good to have a woman want me.
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
pearlamici ( member #67631) posted at 9:02 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2020
EXCELLENT. And all the best tomorrow!!
~Bad marriages don’t cause affairs. Affairs cause bad marriages.~
NoOptTo ( member #62958) posted at 9:11 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2020
👏👏👏
Wish you well with your minor surgery tomorrow
Stevesn ( member #58312) posted at 9:12 PM on Sunday, March 15th, 2020
Medical Procedure Prep instructions aren’t as bad as they used to be. 
fBBF. Just before proposing, broke it off after her 2nd confirmed PA in 2 yrs. 9 mo later I met the wonderful woman I have spent the next 30 years with.
faithfulman ( member #66002) posted at 12:24 AM on Monday, March 16th, 2020
I just don't care if she does. It felt good to have a woman want me.
I guess the intent of What I meant did not come across well.
It's good that you don't care how she feels about it.
And it would also be good for her to really know she is further and further in the rear view mirror.
KingofNothing ( member #71775) posted at 5:55 AM on Monday, March 16th, 2020
So to prepare for my surgery tomorrow I got laid last night. 
Fantastic. WTG Westway. Sometimes a little attention from the opposite sex can be the best therapy.
Rex Nihilo, the King of Nothing
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“If you’re going through hell, keep going. Just please stop screaming, it’s not good for morale.”
— Winston Churchill
BS 3 DDays/Attempted R, it failed. In a better place
Dismayed2012 ( member #49151) posted at 3:58 PM on Monday, March 16th, 2020
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Take care of yourself. :)
Infidelity sucks. Freedom rocks.
Newlifeisgreat ( member #71308) posted at 6:14 PM on Monday, March 16th, 2020
How did the surgery go?
Hope all is well.
Betrayed Spouse. She cheated and I filed immediately upon discovering. She never even suspected that I knew until the moment she was served with reason being Adultery. Divorced: Sept, 2018. VERY happy with new life, 0 regrets
MickeyBill2016 ( member #56459) posted at 6:44 PM on Monday, March 16th, 2020
So to prepare for my surgery tomorrow I got laid last night.
You must have really good insurance....
9 years married.
13 years divorced.
Westway (original poster member #71747) posted at 7:35 PM on Monday, March 16th, 2020
Surgery went well. Finger is in a full splint now. I'm back home watching Netflix.
The lady I had the date with Saturday just called me and we are hooking up again in a couple weeks.
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
J0ck ( member #47763) posted at 10:34 PM on Monday, March 16th, 2020
Nice one mate all the best.
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 2:59 AM on Tuesday, March 17th, 2020
Well that is a stress release I am sure.
Hope the finger gets better, they are useful!
Buffer
Westway (original poster member #71747) posted at 6:46 PM on Monday, March 23rd, 2020
Well, with the virus spreading Michigan State is closing in-person classes so my older daughter has moved back home. My younger daughter's high school has suspended classes for the rest of the semester.
So... I'd like you all to guess where both my daughters want to live while they do online classes...
Guess who is going through the fvcking roof over it?
[This message edited by Westway at 12:48 PM, March 23rd (Monday)]
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
Marz ( member #60895) posted at 6:52 PM on Monday, March 23rd, 2020
So... I'd like you all to guess where both my daughters want to live while they do online classes...
At their ages they get to choose. Stay out of it.
Guess who is going through the fvcking roof over it?
Ignore, ignore, ignore. This is not your problem. I’d block everything. Your kids are old enough you don’t need to be involved.
Westway (original poster member #71747) posted at 7:58 PM on Monday, March 23rd, 2020
Oh I am ignoring her believe me. But in all actuality, my townhouse is much more spacious, airy and quiet than my WW's old house. My WW has a constant parade of in-laws, friends, and hangers-ons coming to her house at all hours. My place is much, much quieter and way more relaxing.
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
KingofNothing ( member #71775) posted at 8:24 PM on Monday, March 23rd, 2020
So... I'd like you all to guess where both my daughters want to live while they do online classes...
Guess who is going through the fvcking roof over it?
Like this was in any doubt? Same thing here. Both kids are home with me at the moment. I just shrugged and bought four weeks of food to hunker down with, and did my patented minimalist response to their mother's phone calls. Don't engage, resist the urge to gloat, even if it feels good at some level.
My WW has a constant parade of in-laws, friends, and hangers-ons coming to her house at all hours. My place is much, much quieter and way more relaxing.
All hours? Conventional friends or the kind she's been entertaining for a decade? Oh well, not your monkey, not your circus. This is her happy ending! You are clearly on the way to yours.
Rex Nihilo, the King of Nothing
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“If you’re going through hell, keep going. Just please stop screaming, it’s not good for morale.”
— Winston Churchill
BS 3 DDays/Attempted R, it failed. In a better place
ramius ( member #44750) posted at 9:47 PM on Monday, March 23rd, 2020
Your ex should look on the bright side.
More time for her extra curricular activities. She didn’t seem too concerned about infection before....why should she now?
How many scars have you rationalized because you loved the person who was holding the knife?
Their actions reveal their intentions. Their words conceal them.
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