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2019 Christmas Card Exchange

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welcome14 ( member #26741) posted at 8:51 PM on Wednesday, October 16th, 2019

I'm in! YAY!

Bs- me
Someone I used to know- Him
Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.

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luvbug0915 ( member #22934) posted at 2:34 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2019

I wouldn't miss it! I look forward to this all year long!

Glitter bombs! YAY!!

"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle

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nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 7:13 PM on Monday, October 21st, 2019

Chili talked me into it. Sign me up!

Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23

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Muggle ( member #62011) posted at 12:53 AM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019

This is an amazing opportunity to bring a heaping dose of fun and happiness to anyone that participates. Finally something that makes me smile, puts me in a fabulous mood, and brings everyone closer. We all get a happiness boost, and then we get to pay it forward to someone else.

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BigBlueEyes ( member #71441) posted at 2:51 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019

What a lovely idea to give something to people that have/are helped/helping you through the worse days/weeks/months or yrs of our lives,

I guess I can still do it, even from a tiny dot in a big 'ol world

[This message edited by BigBlueEyes at 8:52 AM, October 22nd (Tuesday)]

Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!

posts: 674   ·   registered: Mar. 11th, 2019   ·   location: A tiny dot in a big 'ol World
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EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 5:16 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019

Can someone check and make sure I got signed up? I also can't remember if I saw the "received" notice... Signed up yesterday if you needed to know that.

Please and thank you!

"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger

"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park

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MangledHeart ( Webmaster) posted at 7:39 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019

Please go to the sign-up link and check the form. If your info in the fields then you are signed up. If the fields are blank you are on Santa's naughty list and you will not receive any cards.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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heartbroken83 ( member #71395) posted at 12:22 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2019

Done

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StormyPrincess ( member #41224) posted at 2:37 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2019

I’m in! This will be my second time. Can’t wait!

((Hugs))

SP

StormyPrincess
Me: B exW 50 something
Him: XWH 40 something

Married: 20+ yrs; now divorced!!
2 DD; 1DS

posts: 198   ·   registered: Nov. 4th, 2013   ·   location: United States
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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 4:43 AM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

I don’t get it.

Will I only be sending a card to others that are signed up?

I don’t have money for 5000 cards.

I know...I’m an idiot.

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

posts: 8261   ·   registered: Apr. 23rd, 2012   ·   location: Southeast USA
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TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 5:06 AM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

WhatsRight, I see how you may have gotten confused.

The first note on this thread mentions 5000-ish cards as the record, but that was total cards. So if 51 people sign up, then you need to write out 50 cards, and handle the postage for that many. 50 other people do the same, so that's 50x50 cards, or 2500. 60x60 would be 3600, and if 70 people signed up, it would be 4900.

So about 70 cards would be in record territory.

For U.S. members such as yourself, you would provide all the stamps. Most would be your basic 1st class postage, but you would have to pay for international stamps for the members outside the U.S. Foreign members would have to provide money for U.S. postage.

Hope this helps you out.

Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 5:12 AM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

I freaked out, thought I missed it. I am mailing early, those horrible fires last year really held things up.

BS Fwh

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 6:20 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

TrustedHer...very helpful, thanks.

So, just to clarify, I will not be able to send cards to any of my SI friends who are not a part of the exchange...and, I will be sending cards to new SI friends I may not be well acquainted with yet?

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 6:37 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Sand and I are in.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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HoldingTogether ( member #29429) posted at 7:05 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

Tred... your PM’s are full! Wanted to ask you something.

Us-Reconciled.
You keep waiting for the dust to settle, and then, one day you realize... This is it, that dust is your life going on around you.

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BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 9:31 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019

WhatsRight, that's correct as I understand it. Everyone who signs up gets a card from every other member who signed up. No one can be added to (or omitted from) the list you receive from the elves.

WW/BW

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WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 1:50 AM on Friday, October 25th, 2019

BraveSirRobin...

Thanks so much! I think I’ve actually got it now!

Sorry to be so slow on the uptake.

[This message edited by WhatsRight at 7:51 PM, October 24th (Thursday)]

"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy

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DesertLily ( member #63539) posted at 2:07 AM on Friday, October 25th, 2019

Had so much fun last year with all the glitter, made me smile for a months! I'm signed up ready for the fun!!!

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MangledHeart ( Webmaster) posted at 9:35 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2019

So far we are up to 30 participants, with 2 of those being international.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 11:24 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2019

Oh well crap. I'm one of the internationals. Where are all the Canadians???

Need more than 30! I have way to much glitter for just 29 cards...lmao

Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.

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