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So on facebook I keep seeing "naked challenge." Basically it's where the wife just walks into the room completely naked and records her spouses reaction in a first person point of view. It's very amusing, most reactions are surprise, some men you see get tripped up a bit, some reactions are i suspect contrived at how the men jump "to the ready."

But I gotta ask, is the sight of the same naked body you've seen for years enough to elicit a large reaction?

I got to assume it's the walking into the living room, probably an uncommon occurrence holding a camera that's getting these reactions.

How would you react?

I'd wonder where all my kids were! Casual nudity isn't really an option for us in a lockdown with our teenagers.

Geeez...I don’t even look at myself in the mirror when I step out of the shower… Much less prance around naked in the living room.

To old... Too fat… Too mushy…

But I gotta ask, is the sight of the same naked body you've seen for years enough to elicit a large reaction?

For me? Yes.

Yes, it did for me even after 35 years of marriage. Then came the DDays.

Shattered....lol. that gif is similar to many of the reactions on fb. Nailed it.

I have to admit I'm curious if itd get any type of fb worthy reaction here. I've basically been pregnant or nursing nonstop for the past 5 years and hes seen my boobs at any given time of day all day. It might be as similar as seeing me in a shirt at this point.

Haha, in the reverse I think I'd be alarmed if he did tried this challenge.

My h once was reading a woman's magazine in the doctor's office and he stole it to bring home to me. Basically the article was this.

Woman looking at own naked body: "My thighs are fat. My boobs are drooping. I'm getting wrinkles". Etc.

Man looking at same woman's naked body "THANK YOU!"

And I think that's basically true.

I flash my breasts at my husband a lot. I always get the same response, a huge shit eating grin.

I don't randomly walk around naked, but if he's in the bedroom when I come out of the shower naked, same stupid grin. He also likes to peak in on me when I'm in the shower.

I am not young and svelte.

He is physically attractive by most standards. My neighbor made a comment about how "buff" he is the other day. I barely notice when he's naked. 🤣

I think, for the most part, men and women experience the naked body differently.

They say men are visual. My W is no longer 22, but she still looks good to me. I don't think I'd show much of a reaction if she walked in naked; my reaction is internal. I think.

[This message edited by sisoon at 11:54 AM, April 11th (Saturday)]

..Hey coco..

I'd keep a 'eye' on your neighbour. just sayin'?

As for the challenge, my fWW wouldn't have time to take a picture! She keeps herself in fabulous shape and I continue to desire her 69 year old body.

If I was the naked one however, she'd be telling me to go put some clothes on for God's sake!!

smy

My almost 70-year-old husband still appreciates this 62-year-old's body. Flashing him my boobs gets me an appreciative eye roll. Of course, he wants a closer look...

Hey coco..

I'd keep a 'eye' on your neighbour. just sayin'?

I'm not worried about it. I don't really care anymore. I'm not in a real relationship with him anymore. We live together and get along ok and occasionally have sex (haven't in about a month), but I don't consider us in love or anything. He might.

..hey again coco..

Your last post doesn't sound very promising for either of you, if you don't really care and yet you know it's 'been a month'..

Is he ok with ..a month..? ..you're both 50, not 80.. he's still peeking in the shower??..

Life is short and lately it could get a whole lot shorter..

stay healthy and be kind to each other

smy

It has now officially been over a year since my H and I have had sex. (Appears to be mutual choice, since neither of us have initiated.) Since he is more of a roommate/coparent rather than a spouse, I would never randomly appear naked in front of him—I cover up around him and change/shower in private.

Life is short and lately it could get a whole lot shorter..

That's why we take afternoon "naps!"

But I gotta ask, is the sight of the same naked body you've seen for years enough to elicit a large reaction?

Yup, of course.

Seriously, that would garner my full attention.

I'm almost 50, weigh more than I ever have and am in the very worst physical shape of my life. I can say without a doubt that if I walked into the living room wearing nothing just to get attention I would get it.

My H loves me and finds nothing sexier than confidence. He would come to full attention for sure even if I was just heading to the dryer to get a fresh towel.

Now on the other hand if he walked into the room naked, he would probably be told to put some damned pants on. He is more than comfortable without clothes on. Lol.

if you don't really care and yet you know it's 'been a month'..

I know it's been about a month because I track my menstrual cycles. Waiting for the big M.

Is he ok with ..a month..? ..you're both 50, not 80.. he's still peeking in the shower??..

He seems ok with it. It's not a matter of him trying and me refusing. He doesn't try. I have always been the one to initiate. I don't much anymore. I think about it but don't feel like making the effort. If I wanted it enough, I could get it easily.

We're are 50, not 80, but we are going through hormonal changes. Perimenopause is known to affect energy levels and libido. It's also known that testosterone levels start to drop significantly for men in their 50s. If I ask him, he says he's up for sex anytime. He doesn't actually do anything about it. 🤷‍♀️ (And, no, he's not having sex with anyone else.)

He did ask me the other day if I thought sex was safe with CV-19 going around. I said it is for us since we're around each other all the time, anyway. He did nothing.

[This message edited by cocoplus5nuts at 10:33 AM, April 13th (Monday)]

I’ll see your “1 year” and raise you 7 years.