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needtomoveon24 ( member #4634) posted at 4:56 AM on Tuesday, October 10th, 2006
thank you for this post. this is the second time i read it. now i just need to follow it :)
Teacherman2000 ( member #6683) posted at 6:18 AM on Wednesday, October 11th, 2006
Me - BS/48
Her - XWS/44
DDay - 4 December 2004
Several more ddays to follow, the last one in July 2009.
Long boring story where I do nearly everything wrong.
"Waiting for my real life to begin." Colin Hay
trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 12:37 AM on Thursday, October 12th, 2006
Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
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"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 12:58 AM on Thursday, October 12th, 2006
Great related article in Healing Library as well:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/healing_library/divorce/no_contact.asp
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
tkd1 ( member #6661) posted at 5:10 AM on Thursday, October 12th, 2006
Woo Hoo for 180 List!!
[This message edited by tkd1 at 11:11 PM, October 11th (Wednesday)]
"I Just need a compass and a willing accomplice." P!nk, Crystal Ball
drowninginsorrow ( member #4545) posted at 3:53 PM on Friday, October 13th, 2006
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
tlsmi (original poster member #6558) posted at 11:37 PM on Tuesday, October 31st, 2006
downfall ( member #7430) posted at 1:40 AM on Saturday, November 4th, 2006
Just as a FYI the 180 list is also here now:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11
Dday June 16 2005: Separated 2/06 Divorced 3/09
Ah, but she can't take you any way
You don't already know how to go ~ Eagles
Teacherman2000 ( member #6683) posted at 6:56 PM on Saturday, November 11th, 2006
Me - BS/48
Her - XWS/44
DDay - 4 December 2004
Several more ddays to follow, the last one in July 2009.
Long boring story where I do nearly everything wrong.
"Waiting for my real life to begin." Colin Hay
drowninginsorrow ( member #4545) posted at 2:29 PM on Saturday, November 25th, 2006
Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.- Matt Groening
"I've found the secret to life. I'm ok when everything is not ok"- Tori Amos lyrics
girlalmostgone ( member #4867) posted at 5:12 PM on Monday, December 4th, 2006
Bumping this up again 
Love is no assignment for cowards. Ovid
I just really feel like I am a hamster running on the wheel.. and I am ready to get off the wheel, and try running around in the hamster ball.. kinda like a free range chicken.
girlalmostgone ( member #4867) posted at 12:22 AM on Saturday, December 23rd, 2006
Love is no assignment for cowards. Ovid
I just really feel like I am a hamster running on the wheel.. and I am ready to get off the wheel, and try running around in the hamster ball.. kinda like a free range chicken.
TooAloof ( member #12764) posted at 7:41 PM on Wednesday, December 27th, 2006
Bump! I read this list almost everyday!
TA
The Cure for Everything is Salt Water; Tears, Sweat, the Sea
treading_water ( member #13038) posted at 10:07 PM on Tuesday, January 2nd, 2007
Hi,
I have been following this since 2 days after DD. My question is this, my WH is being much nicer to me but still won't admit or talk about OW, our M or R.
How do I know if this is the right approach or if NC is better? We are currently separated.
If anyone has any insight or experience I would appreciate it.
Whoknew? ( member #9270) posted at 7:44 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2007
Wish I'd know about the 180 degree list from day one. It'll soon be the 3rd anniversay of our official D- day and I'm wondering if it's too late to start the 180 degree behaviors.
Has anyone else started a long time after D-day?
offthecoaster ( member #12986) posted at 7:57 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2007
I 100% agree w/ this. Some see it as manipulation but i see it as "they should have to work their "asses" off to get you back!! Not the other way around. It was their mistake and we need to realize oour own worth. id id it and let me tell you how powerful you start to feel. People really start to notice it and it feels so empowering especially when you are in such a vulnerable place. Working on oneself and making "you" a priority is always a good idea.
tlsmi (original poster member #6558) posted at 8:02 PM on Thursday, January 4th, 2007
treading water,
Welcome. Your DDAY was very recent...I vote to continue the 180 and stay the course.
Keep your chin up.
paulb ( member #4936) posted at 12:31 AM on Wednesday, January 24th, 2007
"Some say life will beat you down, break your heart, steal your crown"
"I'm learning to fly, but I ain't got wings"
"but not me baby, I've got you to save me"
Tom Petty
soccemom ( member #12327) posted at 6:14 PM on Monday, January 29th, 2007
dr1968 ( new member #13424) posted at 7:14 PM on Monday, January 29th, 2007
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