JanetS, thanks for taking the time to share that with me. Reflect for a while on how it must feel for me, to have someone tell me that what I have posted has had meaning for them. So again, thanks.
Odonna, from the very first time that I met you towards the end of my JFO thread, you have been a wise and helpful guide. We certainly are connected by our sky, but also by more that just one of life’s challenges. As hard as the other connection is, I believe that providence saw that we might need an understanding ear from time to time. You certainly are that to me.
Bleep, I must say, your relentless support and resilient good cheer, sharing all those frustrations in “Stay no contact …..” but still bouncing back with positive support to so many of us, is most certainly one of the contributors to me being one of Simplicity’s miracle patients. I am not going to go into any more detail on this other than to say that a year ago this month was when I was first diagnosed and the collective lab results that piled up since, together with every academic, peer reviewed research paper told me that it was going to be impossible for me to be still here by this time. But here I am. Happy, almost said healthy, but not quite, but still breathing and still loving life and the happiness that is in it. If Simplicity is still around, she will confirm this. And Simplicity, if you are still around, I miss you, and hope that a tidal wave of happiness has found its way to you.
Squid, it is always great when you stop by. On so many occasions I meant to respond to your last response in my previous thread but flu and doctors and the demands of planning weddings and oh yes, I meant to share in my opening post in this thread, I am the proud father of another beautiful daughter. The adoption of Sunshine was finalised a little while back. We now all tease MMS that she is not actually part of the family as she does not carry the Ohfor surname. Now back to what I wanted to respond with to that other response of yours. On our Europe trip of earlier this year we met a delightful couple from your part of the world. Thanks to you I had a wonderful conversation piece, I mentioned how I had never associated strawberry fields with your part of the world but had recently found out that there were. Well firstly, they were suitably impressed with the breadth of my knowledge, so thanks to you I looked like a well-informed, knowledgeable chap, then secondly, they went on to enthuse about just how lovely those strawberry fields were. So you were clearly telling the truth when you shared that experience of yours with us.
I would also like to respond to the others from that thread that I never managed to get back to.
Coolye2, I am glad that you looked up the link. And as I am sure you will know, pictures can never capture the all of it. And yes, the diversity of language and culture is quite astounding. Makes one think that if we could get all foes to garden together, we might have fewer wars.
Taken, what took me so long?, Well, I am this sort of bashful chap, and never believed that someone as multifacet-ly beautiful ( I know I made up a word there, but it works for me), would ever want to be with me. Not something I think you will understand. I was thrilled when I saw in one of your posts that there is an aspirant SO in your life, and it sounds like quite a good man. So pleased. You deserve it. But you got there much quicker that I did.
K8la, I looked Queens Garden, Bruce Canyon up. Loved what I found. I am not sure if you ever recall reading in my JFO thread that XWW and I had done a number of trips on the Desert Express. I LOVE deserts. XWW and I used to visit SA’s Northeast neighbour, Namibia at least once every 2 or 3 years. Our souls needed to cleanse from the constant crush of people of the large metropolis, and just soak in the healing found only in wide open space. The sort of uninterupted space found only in a desert. Namibia is home to the oldest desert in the world, the Namib. It is also home to the Fish River Canyon, 2nd in size only to the Grand Canyon, quite as spectacular, and with the advantage that one usually has it all to themselves. If you would like to discover another intriguing place, look up Kolmanskop.
Oh sage Chili, if only you could give me an argument to use to get them to let me see the dress, I would be able to describe it all for you. Don’t you think that it would only be right for them to let me see it so that I could do right by all my SI friends.
susieque2 you made me blush
, but also made me feel so warm inside that I instantly felt well. So thanks, that goes for you too, phmh, Phoenix and northeasternarea.
EvenKeel ,
OH man.....how can you leave us hanging like that????? WHAT WAS IT???
Apologies, never meant to leave anyone in suspense, it was just that I didn’t know how many folk would remember DDF and how she came into our lives. Also, I am a little fearful that in sharing it, I might seem a little boastful. Don’t want that, but here it is any way. On the evening of Father’s Day, I received this message from DDF;
"Hello, I was gonna write you a letter for Father's Day but then I didn't. But I just want to say thank you for everything you've done for me. For ? (DS) and ?? (DD) it's kind of expected, but you didn't need to do everything for me that you've done. The big things like helping me with the court case and applying for uni and then all the little things that are equally important. I really appreciate everything and I always feel at home and welcome in your house. I don't really feel like I've lost anything in life because I just traded one dad for a much better one 😁 so thank you and I hope you enjoy the rest of your Father's Day"
Hope I didn’t over sell it, but for me it is the best Father’s Day gift I could ever have been given.
[This message edited by ohforanewme at 3:10 PM, July 26th (Friday)]