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Odonna ( member #38401) posted at 3:36 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2019
How are you doing, Dear Friend?
Odonna ( member #38401) posted at 4:48 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2019
Lots of us are worried about you....
Are you back home after your trip? How are you doing?
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 5:52 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2019
I was literally just thinking the same and was about to inquire.
I hope the remainder of your adventure with DD was just as amazing as the beginning.
We miss your updates, and hope you are resting and recovering, Ohfor. Check in when you can. 
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
Odonna ( member #38401) posted at 4:50 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019
Ohfor gave me permission to share that his wedding date has been moved up and he will be married in two weeks! Hallelujah!
It is going to be a small wedding at their home, with MMS’ mom and J doing the flowers and DDF’s mother catering. It will be perfect I am sure!
Ohfor, despite his love of, and talent for, writing, is having increasing problems with his eyesight and stamina, so he did not feel able to post this news in his own evocative words, but I am sure we will get a word-picture of the joyous celebration from him when he can.
I know everyone following his story will be so pleased. I was thinking, in light of the blight that infidelity visits on us, if people might post some joyous stories about love and life to give him some smiles and happy tears....
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 5:00 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019
Thank you Odonna for posting this update . I had a similar situation in that the wedding date we PLANNED turned out to not be the wedding date we HAD 
!!! As it turned out...our wedding date was the PERFECT time...and I am sure this date will be the same perfection for y’all too Ohforanewme !!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 5:14 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019
Thank you Odonna for the update and Ohfor in giving said permission.
This is joyous news indeed. I'm sure you'll have a lot of fellow travelers around here virtually toasting towards the East (or South or you know what I mean). Cheers to Ohfor and MMS and their lovely families!
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:27 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019
Hurray for OhFor, MMS, and their beautiful family! Feel better friend, and we look forward to updates when you can.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 8:51 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019
I am overcome with joy!! Aaahhhhh!!!
New beginnings can be downright euphoric, can't they?
OhFor and MMS's wedding will most certainly be the most beautiful romantic event of a lifetime. We will all virtually be there with you both.
You two make me believe in love, again.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 9:54 PM on Tuesday, October 22nd, 2019
The only person you can change is yourself.
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 1:29 PM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2019
Sending you lots of love, Ohfor.❤️❤️❤️
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
squid ( member #57624) posted at 1:52 AM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019
Thanks, Odonna!
Ohfor, I'm truly praying for you and sending you as much positive vibes as I can.
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
Booyah ( member #60124) posted at 3:11 AM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019
Awesome!!
Thanks for letting us know.
What a glorious day it will be.
Suchasadsack ( member #59690) posted at 4:03 AM on Thursday, October 24th, 2019
Thank you for the update! Ohfor, thinking about you and your loved ones, always, friend. I am so happy you found such a great love. Cheers to your special day.
Hey little fighter, soon things will get brighter!
Odonna ( member #38401) posted at 6:00 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2019
The wedding is Saturday afternoon, which is Sunday brunch time here in the eastern States. I posted ohFor’s description in General for everyone to see. BUT, he went to the hospital last night .... so send him all your best thoughts and love...
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 6:15 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2019
Sending prayers, strength, mojo and throwing everything else I've got to you, ohfor.
May this just be a blip, and Saturday will be a beautiful, unforgettable day!
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:23 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2019
Oh no! Sending mojo your way, Ohfor!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 8:21 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2019
send him all your best thoughts and love...
Done x 1000.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 10:37 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2019
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
squid ( member #57624) posted at 1:23 AM on Friday, November 1st, 2019
BH
D-Day 2.19.17
Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
ff4152 ( member #55404) posted at 2:21 AM on Friday, November 1st, 2019
This is truly frightening to me. I’m praying for your recovery kind sir. I know I’m not alone in that sentiment.
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