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tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 5:23 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
***Update and Thank you to all who wished well, said prayers, and sent mojo. ****
This young man finished all of his Chemo last week. He has no signs of active cancer, and all metastatic disease has disappeared. He is now concentrating on getting strong and healthy so he can start school (College) again in January.
This has been a truly amazing and wonderful thing for this young man. He has a lifetime of frequent follow up d/t the nature of the cancer and it's ability to grow extremely rapidly. But for now .... Cancer Free!!!!!
Thank you ALL!!!!
I am feeling overwhelmed and at a loss for how to help one of my very best friends, and workmates.
Her son is finishing his senior year of high school and was recently diagnosed with thyroid cancer. This bastard is a fast growing MF'r, that has him in surgery today that is expected to last at least 5 hours due to the invasive nature of it. Preop lab testing also indicates that this isn't a straight forward thyroid cancer. We won't know what his journey after surgery will entail for a few weeks, until the pathology comes in, and he has had some healing time.
Thus my request for prayers and MoJo for this wonderfully smart, funny, happy kid.
Thank you in advance.
[This message edited by tushnurse at 12:33 PM, September 22nd (Tuesday)]
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 5:41 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
Oh my. Yes super prayers and mojo being sent.
And you my dear. Please take care of you. As the one who cares doe everyone. Please care for yourself. Be there for her. I'm 100% sure that just that us enough.
Hugs
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
luvbug0915 ( member #22934) posted at 5:53 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
I'm holding this young man in love and light, sending divine energy for whatever his journey entails.
"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:09 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
I'm sorry, tush. Much mojo!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 6:22 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
All sent to him, his family, and you. Hoping for the best possible outcome from surgery today.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 7:24 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
Prayers!! Also, my sister had a more invasive form of thyroid cancer and beat it! Message me if you want details on what she did because she completely broke doctor protocol and went with alternative methods. I’m not selling anything or pushing anything, just informing on what she did.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 7:42 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
Sending lots of mojo his way.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Dorothy123 ( member #53116) posted at 7:43 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 7:50 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 8:06 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
Mojo and prayers sent.
(((Tush)))
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 8:53 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
Adding my thoughts and prayers to the list.
And hugs to you, too, tush.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:21 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:54 PM on Tuesday, December 31st, 2019
You got it TN.
((((Friend's DS)))) Sending MOJO, strength, and positive, HEALING thoughts.
TN, she's lucky to have you as a friend. ((((TN))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 2:21 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Have you heard how the surgery went?
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:25 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
..makes me think all the problems here amount to small potatoes compared to a mom and dad watching their child fight for their life.
Sending prayers and healing mojo to your friend and son.
smy..
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 4:20 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Prayers and love and courage and strength.
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 11:14 AM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Sending prayers and positive healing thoughts. Keep us posted please.
Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)Married 27 years, together 30 Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 12:44 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Mojo and positive thoughts on the way.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:35 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Sending prayers and all healing thoughts.
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 2:35 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Prayers and strength sent his way...🙏
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
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