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WhatsRight (original poster member #35417) posted at 3:09 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
This is the thing that a few of my friends / family members and I have been doing.
Every few days I just send out a “health check…“ text to them. And one by one they “report“ back to me.
Is it unrealistic to think that we could do such a thing here? That whoever was interested in participating, could just check in from time to time so that we could know who is OK and who might have some concerns we could pray for, or send positive mojo to???
So, I’ll just give it a go, and if it doesn’t “take”, it was worth a try!
HEALTH CHECK… How is everybody out there doing today?
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 3:23 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
Thanks for starting this thread, WR:
SMY and I are doing fine. We have no cases at this point where we live in small town rural Ontario. There was an outbreak in a nursing home NW of us (a good distance away). Our town is abiding by the rules; I made us some fabric face masks and snail mailed three to my pregnant DIL.
Food shopping is quite good, three local stores to choose from, usually short lines, if any.
Being seniors, I take advantage of the early opening hour for us before the general public.
We go for a daily walk, trying to get some exercise. Not too many people are out and about and those who are, socially distance, too.
It's warm enough now to get outside and start raking last fall's leaves and prep my perennial garden beds.
SI peeps: Stay safe!
[This message edited by looking forward at 9:24 AM, April 8th (Wednesday)]
Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
WhatsRight (original poster member #35417) posted at 3:26 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
Excellent news! Thanks for checking in!
I think of you all so often, but don’t follow through as I should.
Stay safe!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 4:17 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
collateraldamage ( member #32546) posted at 4:25 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
Me:BS (46) Him:WH (46)
Married 20 years/together 26
Two DS 16/14
DD#1 2/1994 (PA) DD#2 1997-2000?? several EA DD#3 2/17/2011 PA 6 months DD#4 7/13/2011 My Space Account (from 20007) looking for casual sex 10/17/2011 DD#1,000,000... new EA
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 4:58 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 5:01 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
I checked. My health tells me all is good.
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
WhatsRight (original poster member #35417) posted at 5:20 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
FABULOUS to hear!!!
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼😊😊😊😊㈴ 2;👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 5:27 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 10:36 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
WhatsRight (original poster member #35417) posted at 11:06 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
josiep ( member #58593) posted at 11:07 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2020
<chuckling here because if I had time, I'd write 4 chapters because this staying home is allowing my mind to analyze the whole world>>>
But I'm good.
Dealing with a foot issue that isn't serious but has me hobbled and might need surgery. So I get out of the house twice a week to go to the podiatrist and then always make a quick stop to pick up a few very important grocery items I can't live without. Yesterday it was cherry pie filling.
Also dealing with the dreaded "what can I eat?" every 10 minutes. About to remove the elastic from my underwear to donate to the people making masks. Might as well remove it before it gets stretched to the max from all this eating.
Emotionally have lots of pretty severe swings and that upsets me but the down times don't last very long anymore so I'm grateful for that.
Oh, and the other problem: I need a haircut.
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
WhatsRight (original poster member #35417) posted at 12:22 AM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
Bahahahaha!!!
Sorry, but the comment about your underwear elastic was TOO funny!
I’m sorry to hear about your foot. Hope it heals quickly and soundly.
Regarding the “down times“, I’m right there with you. I’m nervous/anxious about everything from hoping friends and family stay healthy - everyone, really - what will happen to my husband if I get the virus, will my kids/grandkids be OK, all the way to worrying about some of our legal paperwork that is not in the best order.
Like you, I’m fortunate that it doesn’t dominate too much of my time.
Regarding your much needed haircut… your words, not mine… there is a whole topic for that subject if you’d like to go visit!
So glad you are safe!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 12:35 AM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
Has anyone heard from Incarnate? He wrote over a week ago that he had classic symptoms and was going in for a test the next day. Since then, crickets.
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 1:52 AM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
Tired, very tired but still fighting a good fight
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 1:53 AM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
This is such a GREAT idea...thanks for starting it
.
We are doing well. We are missing our children and grandchildren like crazy...but we will make up for it when all of this ends
. Thank God for Facetime!!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:35 AM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
Thanks, WR. Glad you and yours are well.
All good here so far. Probably seeing/hearing a bit more of the kids and grandkids, at least virtually or on the phone, cuz they check in on me as the "over 60" and "vulnerable" one. We're doing virtual "Happy Hour" when we can set a time when all can join.
Fun times.
Also have friends checking in. Like I said, all good.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 5:46 AM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
I am fine, so is my husband. We see DS1 from time to time, outside, and hear from DS2 often. We are zooming often with a group of friends we usually socialize with and I'm checking up on my even older friends.
My closets, drawers are absorbent spotless. My garden is weeded and cleaned up.
Thanks for starting this!
On the good news front I only "know" one person in real life who has been infected. He is a client of my sister's, developmentally challenged, no family. He was on a ventilator and in a medically induced coma. But he's now breathing on his on and asking for food.
God bless those medical professionals. True heroes.
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 7:16 AM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
I'm good here! Missing lots of things, especially people. But it's what we have to do to survive.
"Because I deserve better"
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 10:07 PM on Thursday, April 9th, 2020
Late to the party (not surprising) but thanks for this thread WR! I think about both the physical health and mental well-being of everyone here and IRL. This whole thing in a way puts a spotlight on one's life doesn't it?
I am well - smart isolating with just me and my pup. SO is by necessity in a high-risk situation and we're just trying to make sure that if we do get sick, it's not at the same time. Unfortunately several of his co-workers are quite ill with the virus. The 60-something just made it out of the hospital, but they are desperately trying to save the 40-something (very fit - no underlying conditions). That piece of this virus is perplexing and disturbing. I know there are great minds working hard on it.
Didn't mean to carry on - thanks for the shoutout and everyone here take good care.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
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