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Defiance ( member #8265) posted at 7:46 PM on Friday, October 30th, 2009
thanks Wh5.
Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.
Heartless Bytchh ( member #12347) posted at 8:35 PM on Sunday, November 1st, 2009
The calmness & maturity are a hard won facade
Word, sistah (((need_hope)))
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=323764
Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit
shreddedman ( member #25114) posted at 12:29 AM on Monday, November 2nd, 2009
I am most honored to be quoted in this thread.
Thanks Luvs!
SM
me (BH)
her (WW)
D-day 7/6/09 EA - PA
DD 15
Filed for Divorce 10/13/09
Weaving my shredded life back together to make a better one.
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 9:56 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2009
From Unfound in a thread that was funny when she started it!
ya know how the young girls walk around the mall with their thongs sticking out the back of their pants???....
oh, yeah, I'll be hittin the mall this afternoon.....(insert maniacle evil perimenapausal laugh) so if you see a slightly *off* middle aged woman with an oversized maxi pad sticking out the back of her drawers, give her a wide berth.
and maybe I'll do something dangerous..cause I'm protected. cant' touch this
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 9:30 PM on Saturday, November 7th, 2009
Simmer down, Beavis.
Lady V
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 4:33 AM on Tuesday, November 17th, 2009
(Kharma) …. Honestly, Skurd - I'm not bashing you, but if you're walking like a duck, hanging out in ponds, and quacking, how many people does it take to tell you that you're acting like a duck before you listen?
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=326089&AP=21&HL=
(Fallen) … Well lah-dee-freaking-dah!
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 12:00 AM on Wednesday, November 18th, 2009
KDNY on Breast implants
There are many smart women who have breast augmentation for reasons that have nothing to do with a man, an affair, lack of self esteem or anything other silly reason.
There are many smart women who don't really give a rats tiny ass whether a man can't see past the size of their breasts to take them seriously. Those women take themselves seriously, thats all that matters.
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 6:47 PM on Friday, November 20th, 2009
we sniff out the bad apples and haul them off to the river and throw them in...without a floatie.
SI Mod on "Members Calling Others Out" thread ..
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 4:47 PM on Saturday, November 21st, 2009
Danu's insightful words
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=326943
Honey, the fact that you can look on him with anything other than contempt, disgust, & loathing speaks volumes of your character & heart.
It also is an indicator of your healing.
We tend to villianize people to the extent we believe they have power to hurt us. As we heal and take our power back, we're able to see them for what they really are - human beings.
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 4:33 PM on Monday, November 23rd, 2009
oh, bring it. I"m feeling spunky today and would spit just to get that "someone needs a beating" feeling out of my system.
unfound, when being threatened by me to send a sibling to her children.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
HUFI-PUFI ( member #25460) posted at 4:42 AM on Monday, November 30th, 2009
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=328178
lostandafraid writes:
My FWH has solved all our problems.
He told me the secret to our getting past the A trauma.
If we'd all just quit living in the past, we'd all be fine!
Whew, I'm so glad I know the secret now!
Unfound replies with:
1- getting past the trauma of an A. check
2- world hunger. ?
3- peace on earth. ?
4- endless clean energy. ?
5- cure for all deadly diseases. ?
Looks like he's pacing himself.
Waiting on the edge of my seat for his next profound words of wisdom.
Don’t listen to your head, it’s easily confused. Don’t listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 4:45 PM on Tuesday, December 1st, 2009
cant the man adores you, I think you could hang his balls from the front porch and coat them with glitter and he would be enthusiastic if it made you happy!
Sadcat to cant in response to her being unsure of her SO's potential reaction to her decoration the house for the holidays.
I'm in.
Meta in the next post
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=328340
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, December 1st, 2009
"I have been asked by DS to start a new quote thread when the previous one reaches 200 posts."
Scout... on the diligence demonstrated with maintaining the quote thread 
[This message edited by SerJR at 11:54 AM, December 1st (Tuesday)]
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 5:32 AM on Saturday, December 5th, 2009
Hey Finesse,
Lets watch "Sweeney Todd" and pretend our WHs are in the barber chair!
nowherebutup, in General.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 1:32 AM on Tuesday, December 8th, 2009
I'd be happy to be your cleaning phone buddy . if of course you mean by cleaning buddy you walking around saying "holy hell, what the fuck is THAT, it's MOVING!!" and me sitting on the couch saying "windex won't kill that".....
Unfound in response to Threnody looking for a cleaning buddy
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
SourCherryDrops ( member #25883) posted at 12:54 PM on Wednesday, December 9th, 2009
its pearls of wisdom like the following that make SI so worthwhile.
I've begun to realize that the screaming in my head, the "I want to leave him" feeling, is not actually my wanting to leave him. It is my wanting off the roller coaster once and for all.
by SwitchedOnLotus in http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=329621
Me BS 37, Her STBX 34, 1*ONS, 1*EA 1*PA/EA, 2*PA
Heading for D after 9 mths of R
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 4:08 AM on Friday, December 11th, 2009
Dear Friends and Family,
This year can best be summed up in the words of June Cleaver: "Ward, we have a problem with the Beaver."
Happy Holidays!
VeryVeryTired's response to the "Share this years Christmas letter" thread in general.
Absolutely slayed me
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
neverendinghurt ( member #15859) posted at 4:14 AM on Friday, December 11th, 2009
From Wincing at light in his thread "one good thing about infidelity"
My life would be diminished for not having known you.
So, Merry Christmas.
I've now said my one nice thing for the year, so be happy and piss off.
The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another; and his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.
James M. Barrie
SourCherryDrops ( member #25883) posted at 9:37 AM on Tuesday, December 15th, 2009
Im sure that its probably a requote or a reformulation, but that doesnt distinguish the simple truth of the observation. Both for the WS/OP & BS/WS.
An "imperfect" person is easier to love when you are not quite "perfect" yourself.
from BeenCheetted in his very first post in the following thread http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=330597
Me BS 37, Her STBX 34, 1*ONS, 1*EA 1*PA/EA, 2*PA
Heading for D after 9 mths of R
movingforward777 ( member #6850) posted at 5:17 PM on Wednesday, December 16th, 2009
what holly wrapped,jingle encrusted flying F am I supposed to give about this information now...not sure.
UsedUp....talking about getting information from exbff 3 yrs too late.....(in General)...
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
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