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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 9:49 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013

Continued prayers for all of you.

(((ppga)))

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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 painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 9:42 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013

He's been gone 5 weeks now. Still has not been called for rehab, however they did send him to the doc for TB test and a physical, and he went.


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 9:57 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013

(((ppga)))

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cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:57 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013

(((ppga))) Hang in there, hopefully he will get a call soon.

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 10:00 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013

(((PPGA)))

I am sorry you are going through this.

He's been gone 5 weeks now. Still has not been called for rehab

^^^this doesn't sound right to me at all. The longest I have ever seen anyone wait was 10 days. Usually 3-5 days.

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 10:30 PM on Tuesday, July 23rd, 2013

(((ppga))) my heart breaks just reading this.

44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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 painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 12:27 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

^^^this doesn't sound right to me at all. The longest I have ever seen anyone wait was 10 days. Usually 3-5 days.

Chicho, he's going thru a state agency, and sadly, there have been many errors and miscommunications along the way which have delayed the process even more than usual. For example, originally his caseworker could not get in contact with him because he had reversed 2 numbers when he gave her his cell number. It was a total fluke that I called there and spoke with her and she told me that she had been trying to contact him but did not have the right number. Two weeks were pissed away over that mistake. And it horrified me no end at the thought that if I had NOT called, he would have waited forever for their call that would have never come. This is why I still feel the need to advocate on his behalf, because he simply is too impaired to advocate for himself.

The system so so fucked up that I want to give up, but it is all we have. I can only pray that he stays alive, doesn't give up, doesn't get arrested again, and stays out of trouble until he gets in. He came by yesterday and I gave him some soup. I talked to him today and asked him how he liked the soup, and he had not even eaten it.


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 1:09 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

Hugs and prayers

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 6:19 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

(((Ppga and Ds)))

Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced

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m334455 ( member #26893) posted at 7:38 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

This has been a long time coming. You're doing the right thing. Hang in there.

BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 11:13 AM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

((((((ppga))))))

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 2:41 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

((((ppga))))

Thinking of you and your son today, like most days.

Wishing you both some peace. This is such a hard road.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 10:08 PM on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

Sending you, and DS, all the hugs and prayers I can.

ppg- you are amazing woman, and mom. I can't even imagine.

Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23

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JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 6:29 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013

You are in my thoughts/prayers as well.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:13 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013

(((Ppga and DS)))

Your son continues to be in my prayers.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 4:10 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2013

"They" say (whoever THEY are) that the male brain matures at 25. I have one 21 year old male, and one 23 year old male. I am counting the days.

My 27 year old daughter has never caused me nearly the same amount of grief.

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 painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 2:20 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013

He finally got the call. He is going into rehab on Monday!!!

I can not believe this has taken almost 2 months to get him into rehab when he has been willing to go!


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 2:27 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013

I'm glad he is finally getting into rehab PPGA. I hope it works out for him.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:34 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013

PPGA, where is he going? You can pm or txt me if you'd rather. If he's near me and you need a place to crash or just want to get together for lunch again, I am SO in.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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 painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 2:39 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2013

Thanks HFSSC, it's not near you unfortunately.

But I will let you know when I am passing thru your town, and we can do lunch. Should be fairly soon.


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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