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onthefence123 ( member #66156) posted at 3:17 PM on Wednesday, May 29th, 2019
I'm so relieved that it's finally over.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 3:45 PM on Wednesday, May 29th, 2019
You have no idea what I was going through.
Did you stop to think what it was doing to me?
It would have eventually fizzled out on its own.
It was so draining. You have no idea how draining it all was.
Do you know how hard it was to keep it all separate?
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Voodoogirl ( new member #58937) posted at 5:35 AM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
Not sure if this one was posted yet
I didn’t ask them to send me nudes they just sent them
Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 5:42 AM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
DarkHoleHeart ( member #58272) posted at 8:33 AM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
He's not my lover.
I have feelings too, you know.
The sex was bad.
@DDay#1:
Me: BS, 40; Her: WW, 32
M: 10y, in relationship 15y, 3DD (8,8,6)
Dday#1: Oct, 2016, Dday#2: Jun, 2017
AP#1: COW PA, AP#2: EA/PA 3 months, AP#3: COW PA
Currently (2024): Plain of the Lethal Flatness
Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 11:56 AM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
“She was not a threat to you”
“She was never going to leave her family” “ her family means the world to her.
Yes, I got the deer in the headlight look when I confronted him!
“She could never be the women you are”
“Your making a big deal out of nothing”
One of my favorites... 
“I was trying to calm her down”
“I only cheated bc you were snooping” the A started long before I started snooping.. aka uncovering the truth
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 12:37 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
I was trying to ease out gracefully
In my own way I was trying to protect you
She's really a toxic person
Aren't I allowed to have friends?
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 2:31 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
It was only oral. (lie)
It's not like I loved them.
They peer pressured me into it (prostitutes, peer-pressured him into giving them money and having sex with them. After he sought them out. This is still my favorite.)
You had to notice that I hadn't been the best husband lately.
We had grown apart. (in the space of less than a year of marriage)
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 2:32 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 2:37 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
She's clean - we've only been with each other [and our spouses]
She can't possibly be pregnant - I pulled out every time (thank GOD she wasn't)
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 2:41 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
I wasn't even really attracted to them.
I was trying to find myself.
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
hopeandnohope ( member #43097) posted at 2:51 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
If you tell her husband you will be hurting a lot of innocent people.
If you'd quit snooping we would be okay.
DD 2013. Divorce final March 2015.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 2:52 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
Yes!
If you tell OBS - he'll kick her out - she'll move back to this area - you don't want that do you???
I'm having WAYYYYYYY too much fun with this thread.
We're gonna need a bigger bingo card 
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 6:35 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2019
I didn't feel like I deserved you.
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
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