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Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 5:08 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I came across one of those sites that let's you make your own bingo cards. I thought it would be fun to make a cheater's bingo card so you can play along while they say the stupid shit they say. One box has ILYBINILWY. Another one has, Dont I deserve to be happy? What other stuff can I put in it?
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
Lifeexploded ( member #51196) posted at 5:19 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
We didnt have sex, we only kissed
We had sex but i didnt like it
She/he doesnt mean anything
I wouldnt have done it if you had/hadnt ___
Married for 19.5 years to a sex addict. Filed for divorce 4/15/2020. Freedom July 22, 2020!
onthefence123 ( member #66156) posted at 5:19 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I never wanted to leave you.
onthefence123 ( member #66156) posted at 5:20 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I thought you would never find out.
ibonnie ( member #62673) posted at 5:31 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
"I will survive, hey, hey!"
Adlham ( member #53358) posted at 5:33 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.
sigma1299 ( member #70621) posted at 5:33 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
Me: FWH
Her: BW
High School Sweethearts married 1998
DDay 8/18/2010
Reconciled in about two years... fully over it in 5.
nothisfriend ( member #53171) posted at 5:36 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I've been unhappy for years.
I didn't think you loved me anymore.
Me: BS 50 (at the time) Him: WH 53 (at the time) D-Day: 10/25/15 Married: 28 years. One son, age 18 (at the time)
D final 2016 REMARRIED to a marvelous guy on 4/22/23
Adaira ( member #62905) posted at 5:40 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I swear I’ve told you everything now!
Former BW. Happily divorced.
DomesticTourist ( member #67648) posted at 6:13 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
"It wasn't like that...."
[This message edited by DomesticTourist at 1:44 PM, May 24th (Friday)]
Emotions are like children: you can’t put them in the trunk, but you can’t let them drive, either.
Cheatee ( member #59284) posted at 6:18 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
(S)he meant nothing to me! (with great indignance)
You can keep bringing the affair up all the time!
But I thought you'd never find out!
I never meant to hurt you.
How do you think I feel?
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 6:21 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I swear on my life
She didn't mean anything
Its YOU I love
It didn't mean anything
It was just one time...
I never meant to hurt you
I wasn't going to leave
I came home every night didn't I
How could you think that
I'm not cheating
You ruined everything
I was going to end it
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 6:27 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I never meant to hurt you.
You didn't meet my needs.
I'm still here, aren't I?
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:29 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
I thought you would just look the other way...
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
onthefence123 ( member #66156) posted at 6:31 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
LizM ( member #48659) posted at 6:35 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 6:35 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)Married 27 years, together 30 Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 6:46 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
But I love you not her
She needed my help
She's not a bad person
I'm not a bad person
It's not what you think
It's not an A
I only cheated once
I ended it
I'm sorry you feel that way
You are overreacting
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
emergent8 ( member #58189) posted at 6:48 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
Me: BS. Him: WS.
D-Day: Feb 2017 (8 m PA with married COW).
Happily reconciled.
fooled13years ( member #49028) posted at 6:58 PM on Friday, May 24th, 2019
Why can't you get over this?
How long are you going to punish me?
You don't believe anything I say now.
Why won't you trust me?
I don't know why, it just happened.
I removed myself from infidelity and am happy again.
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