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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 7:44 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013

Bumpity bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 7:32 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

Bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013

Bump for a new person

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 10:03 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013

I wish we can sticky this with a note that this is someone's opinion if you care to read.

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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lostcovenants ( member #40637) posted at 3:03 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

Bump for mel

DDs, 1977 (prostitutes), 7/8/13 (LTA MOW), 11/14 (CL), 9/1/15 (PA).
Porn, 2DUIs, blame-shifting. I told both families & adult kids. I was suicidal and cutting.
I moved out for 2 years, he asked me to come home 10/16. R w exit plan.
STD discovered

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suposd2btheonly1 ( member #40753) posted at 3:26 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013

love this!!

Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

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hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 4:15 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013

bump


I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 6:24 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013

Bumping for maddmurph.

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:13 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 11:16 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013

bump


I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:45 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:02 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:23 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2013

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 8:52 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2013

bump for new folks

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 7:11 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013

BUMP

Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:49 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013

bump

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 8:50 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013

bump

Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:45 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:49 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013

Bump

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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