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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:58 PM on Saturday, November 8th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:16 PM on Friday, November 14th, 2014
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:22 PM on Saturday, November 22nd, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 5:36 PM on Sunday, November 30th, 2014
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 11:57 PM on Wednesday, December 3rd, 2014
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:32 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 10:49 PM on Monday, December 8th, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:26 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:18 AM on Thursday, December 25th, 2014
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:58 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2015
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 6:57 PM on Wednesday, January 7th, 2015
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:59 PM on Saturday, January 10th, 2015
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:24 AM on Sunday, January 18th, 2015
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 8:32 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:26 AM on Thursday, January 22nd, 2015
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:31 PM on Friday, January 23rd, 2015
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
midnightlamp ( new member #46436) posted at 11:35 PM on Friday, January 23rd, 2015
As a recent JFK, WW as done all of the right things to R, she scheduled MC for us, already started IC for herself, been very upfront with texts, fb etc. . . Question is, how does one balance 180 and the R process? As a newbie they seem to be going in different directions.
Me BH 47
Her WW 45
4 kids, 17, 15, 13, 10
M 19 years
Ddy 1/18/2015
R 6/1/2015
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 4:45 AM on Wednesday, January 28th, 2015
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:46 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:21 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
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