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Briseis ( member #47825) posted at 12:35 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

This thread is solid gold!! Karmita, thanks for continuing to post, because resurrecting this thread was so what I needed to read today!

Glad to hear you are still doing well

BW/MH (me): b 1979
WH: b 1976
Married 2001
1 DS

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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 1:16 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Thanks Briseis

I appreciate that this was something that made a difference in anyway for you.

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:22 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Hey lady! Glad to hear from you and VERY HAPPY to hear that you are doing well. But then again, I expected a kick-ass lady like you to do well. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 1:30 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Shout to you Skan and a big hug....thank you

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reddawn212 ( member #48371) posted at 2:02 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

The first post made me giggle ... sitting on my deck listening to sounds of nature and just GIGGLING .. your story reminds me of the new song out "fight song" -

you found your heart on the ground, you picked it up dusted it off and sprinkled fairy dust on it walked courageously out into the unknown. ((((((( I LOVE THAT. ))))))

Me - 44BGF
Him - 50 XWBF
DDAY1 - December 19, 2014 (EA and PA)
DDAY 2 Feb 2015 - another OW online sex
DDay 3 June 9, 2015 (caught him on craigslist)
TT and False R revealed, April 2017.
"We repeat what what we don't repair"

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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 2:16 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Reddawn212

Glad you're giggling and the sound of nature surrounds you.

I like your name, it's beautiful.

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LifeIsBroken ( member #27071) posted at 4:23 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

His ow thang...the red headed slut old news. Funny, I bumped into her again. Paid a teenager 10 bucks to ask her if she's a tranny at our local mall. It was priceless

THANK YOU, Karmita.... I'll be laughing for several days over your latest (noted above). Dang. I wish I could think as fast on my feet as you. Please do continue the updates and PLEASE let us know if you run into Hauren again. Can't wait for the next episode !

How's your house / rehab coming along ?

D-Day: 8/28/2009
BW: 59 @ D-Day XH: 60 @ D-Day Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
Beyond terror is freedom. (Agnes Martin)

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BlueIris ( member #47551) posted at 4:57 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

I am so glad that you keep posting updates on your thread; I'm newish here and hadn't seen it before. Your original post was fantastic! oh my gosh, what a brilliant take-down!

I'm guessing that, by now, your sister has had her baby. How are you enjoying being an aunt/godmother? :)

BW | Dday 2-20-2015 + TT for several weeks

"The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off."

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WeakKnees ( member #46456) posted at 6:19 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Holy crap!!!! I think I'm in love. THANK YOU!!!

DDay: 10/26/14 (3 LTAs, found out all at once)
Me: 55
BH: 56
Married 36 years
3 Grown Children, 5 GC
If I open up to you, then you're probably special.

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eric1 ( member #47762) posted at 11:11 AM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

This may be one of the greatest "drop the microphone and walk off the stage" moment ever

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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 2:22 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Thanks BlueIris, for asking about my amazing sister and yup, I'm the proud auntie and godmother to the most adorable little boy. He's a chunky little guy with chocolate brown eyes and I just want to eat him up. He's named after our Dad and has him wrapped around his chubby fingers.

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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 2:41 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Thank you to LifeIsBroken for your response. Keep laughing, I sure am. As for Hauren, haven't bumped into her lately, I think she's scared of me, imagine that.

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NeverAgain2013 ( member #38121) posted at 3:29 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

I just LOVE the smell of fresh karma in the morning! And reading about ass-clown's new living arrangements in his mother's 1970's styled paneled basement with a shag rug amenity was fun as hell. Add to the fact that his 'loooooove of the ages' with his OW took a big, giant DUMP and it just ups the entertainment value THAT much more.

Basement Boy is yet just ANOTHER glaring example of reality for all those OW out there living in their little fantasy affair bubbles thinking their lives would be one big Shangri-La if ONLY they could get their married boyfriends to leave their wives.

Karmita - do you think your ex would be kind enough to make a YouTube video of his miserable, dismal basement room and upload it for our viewing pleasure? Thanks, you're a peach!

Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 4:25 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Hahaha....NeverAgain 2013, I loved that you called my ex-Buttplug cheater husband "Basement Boy."

He's still living in his Momma's basement last I heard.

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regretandshame ( member #48463) posted at 4:33 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

As a WS Im forever grateful my BS didn't do this to me. It would have been fully deserved.

fWW:30 BH: 34 (brokenbuthealed)
XBf/OM: 33
DD: 9 DS 22m 12 weeks pregnant
Started Dating: February 2009
D-Day: August 13 2013
Reconciled: October 2013
Bought A House: April 2015
Getting Married: November 7 2015

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eric1 ( member #47762) posted at 5:16 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Are you jealous of his unlimited ketchup sandwiches though?

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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 6:12 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

eric1

Yeah....buttplug's mom the "ketchup sandwich"chef when she's not smoking a pack a day.

Yeah.....I'm so jealous....NOT

[This message edited by Karmita at 12:18 PM, July 24th (Friday)]

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Change2Be ( member #47878) posted at 9:48 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

I kind of want to change my username to Ketchup Sandwiches in your honor.

I found your story to be inspiring and hopeful. I hope I can handle myself with such swift determination if the time comes. Unfortunately, I can't hope for my WS to end up desolate in his mother's basement because, kids. And because she is a good cook and would probably do his laundry.


Dday: May, 2015

I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.
-Maya Angelou

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 Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 10:18 PM on Friday, July 24th, 2015

Change2Be

Are you saying the OW would wash your cheater's shit streaked underwear and smelly socks and cook him dinner. I'd load his dirty laundry and send it to her, with a little note of thanks and to be sure she uses extra bleach on his skid marked underwear. Oh...and I send her his eye patch for when he eats her cooking cause he has trouble not stabbing himself in the eye when using a fork.

[This message edited by Karmita at 4:20 PM, July 24th (Friday)]

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Change2Be ( member #47878) posted at 1:35 PM on Saturday, July 25th, 2015

Karmita,

Ha! But not quite. I meant his mother would cook and clean for him-thus ruining the karma of him having to live in a dump on Ketchup Sandwiches. (thankfully OW is way out of the picture).

Be very thankful you did not have kids with your Ex. Because you have to hope for some reasonable existence for them for the kids' sake. And there's college at some point, so you can't hope they lose their job and become broke. Even poking his eye out with a fork would just be embarrassing for them. We could only pass it off as "daddy is a pirate" for so long. So.....

This is why we live vicariously through you!


Dday: May, 2015

I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.
-Maya Angelou

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