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Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 6:00 PM on Thursday, August 13th, 2015
Lally...your post made laugh out loud. It's funny because he did reek of cigarette smoke and I'm almost positive he had ketchup stains on his shirt, but he was running so fast when Stella chased him off my property I didn't get a closer look.
I've documented his whiny and means phone calls, and his visit to my house. MR. Butt Plug now knows I have a big dog. I think he'll stay away, cause he's always been afraid of dogs. It makes sense that dogs have never liked him.
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 10:48 PM on Monday, October 5th, 2015
Maybe TMI, whoa...had the best sex this weekend, he's a looker and my dog Stella likes him, which says a lot.
Not in love, just getting my groove back. Life is good.
There is life after kicking a cheater to the curb.
Big shout out to all you good people and want you to know, it's not you, it's the cheaters who lose out.
Love yourself and be courageous.
Hg65 ( member #49801) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, October 5th, 2015
Finally, a *win* for our team. You should turn this into a book. Thx for the updates, encouragement, and inspiration.
susieque2 ( member #49694) posted at 12:47 AM on Tuesday, October 6th, 2015
Karmita!!
Just read your entire post --- you are 'Strong like bull' !!!
Love it! I'm much older but my bitch boots have really done well for me over the years.
Sounds like your life is as good as it gets! Your own home - an awesome dog and now some action -- and trust me - you NEVER get too old for that! 
Your posts were short and to the point - no psychoanalyzing a problem which is really cut & dried. You had your evidence - made your decision and thankfully had your sister & her boyfriend (now husband) at your back! You did great girl!
Here's wishing you great luck in your life and much love in your future!
We are all spiritual beings having a human experience!
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 1:34 AM on Tuesday, October 6th, 2015
Thank you Hg65 and Susieque2 for your kind words.
Big hugs
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 2:28 AM on Wednesday, October 7th, 2015
Well, Stella showed excellent "taste" before, so I'd be inclined to factor her liking into the equation. Glad to hear that you got your groove back and are boogying with it!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 4:13 AM on Wednesday, October 7th, 2015
Hi Karmita
That's me, late to the party as usual, but glad to hear you are doing so well. I pass on your story often and it always makes me smile. Imagine that, smiling over shit like this. You still rock lady. Take care and keep in touch.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 8:47 PM on Wednesday, October 7th, 2015
Big hugs to Skan and deavasted30 ...thanks for your support and wishing both of you all the best.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 9:11 PM on Wednesday, October 7th, 2015
You go, girl! You're my heroine.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 12:50 PM on Wednesday, November 25th, 2015
I just want to send out a huge hug to all the awesome people here. I know that it's so hard to get through the holidays, that it hurts to smile and put on a brave face at these times.
Take a moment to hug yourself, to appreciate your uniqueness, to be your own best friend. Be good and kind to yourself. Be thankful, for being you.
Wishing you all a heartfelt Thanksgiving
Biggestmistake ( member #50285) posted at 5:18 PM on Wednesday, November 25th, 2015
wow, your post and your spirit has just touched me. Thank you for keeping up. It's good to know things turn out okay.Througout it all your humor and bravery have just touched m. I feel I can dream a little just reading your post. What you said about being treated like a nobody IS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL. Treated like a nobody. This was good. 
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 1:03 AM on Monday, January 4th, 2016
Sending out a new year wish to everyone at SI.
You are stronger, smarter and worthy of self love.
Feck the cheaters, there is happiness and wholeness when you take no shit from those who place a low value on you.
Put on your glorious bitch boots and smash some plates, reapply lipstick and it's ok to use your potty mouth.
Be fierce, be your own hero, and take a bow.
Don't be afraid of the future, it's way better to face the future than it is to stay stuck in the past with a cheater.
Let this new year be the year of reclaiming your awesome self.
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 1:11 AM on Monday, January 4th, 2016
Happy New Year Karmita.
I think of you often and hope you're still rocking to your own beat and winning, winning, winning.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
MadOldBat ( member #44146) posted at 1:30 AM on Monday, January 4th, 2016
Thank you Karmita,
I'm going for it!!
Keeping my chin(s) up whilst getting divorced.
lostinny1 ( member #49718) posted at 1:30 AM on Monday, January 4th, 2016
This post is AWESOME! YAY for you!! Wish it was that easy for me but glad someone can get out!
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 1:39 AM on Monday, January 4th, 2016
devasted30 thank you for your kind thoughts and also wishing a wining new year for you too.
I'm humbled by the kindness and brilliant souls here. You are gems and it's always gems who despite their own heartache reach out and comfort others.
I'm getting relied up, so please excuse me...but what the feck is wrong with these fecking cheaters who feck with good people. %%%###***%€£¥ them.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 12:11 AM on Tuesday, January 5th, 2016
Happy New Year to you! I'm glad that you checked back in. I hope your 2016 is simply Awesome!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 2:39 PM on Tuesday, January 5th, 2016
Thank you Skan and also wishing you a happy 2016 too.
The people here are awesome, the best and kindest souls.
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 4:26 PM on Tuesday, January 5th, 2016
Thanks for reminding us that Karmita is even better than Karma ...
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 4:31 PM on Tuesday, January 5th, 2016
Yeah Karmita, what TR said. You ROCK.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
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