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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 11:08 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 11:11 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I wish I had more than words of condolence to offer you right now.
As a mother too, my heart is broken for you.
I hope you are with someone who will take care of you in this trying time.
A million healing hugs.
I wish I could do more.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 11:18 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
How unbelievable... I am so sorry. My thoughts are with your family. :(
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
LoveActually ( member #31030) posted at 11:19 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((Phoenix)))
This is beyond comprehension...I'm so very sorry. 
BS (Me) WS (Him) D-Day 5/29/09Married 15 yrs, together 20 yrs
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 11:23 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Oh (((Phoenix)))
I am so very sorry! Tears and heartbreak here as well. I wish all of us sharing your pain would make yours more bearable. Unimaginable really...
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 11:32 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Oh god, no. No. No. No.
I just saw this and I'm sending all my thoughts out your way.
(((((((((hugs)))))))))
((((((((((((((((more hugs)))))))))))))))
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 11:33 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
OMG...how much is one family supposed to take?!
My heart broke reading this.
((( Phoenix and family )))
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Random thoughts ( member #2959) posted at 11:35 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss Phoenix,, prayers to you your girls and family members.....
Those three words are said too much and not enough.Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.FWW
childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 11:36 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
My heart breaks for you and your family (((Phoenix)))
Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress
Hurtm ( member #41102) posted at 11:46 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I have no words Phoenix. Just lots of hugs and love.
Me: 36 and awesome (now 38)
Him: 37 and a douche (otherwise known as DB)
DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, together 14
DS 8, DD 5
Finally officially divorced after almost 4 years
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:48 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Dear god. This is too much. Too much.
Phoenix - I have no words. No words. I am sitting here in disbelief and grief. Sending you all of the love and strength I can muster. I want you to wake up and have this all be a terrible nightmare.
I just can't believe it. I am so very sorry.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
jadedheart ( member #32046) posted at 12:04 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
still praying! My heart is so heavy for you!
Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 12:24 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
So, so sorry Phoenix.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 12:27 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Just saw the news feed. My heart is breaking for you, phoenix.
I cannot express my deep condolences to you, and your family.
No one should have to carry so much burden, but we are all here for you. Wish we could all actually be with you in person.
Sending prayers, and hugs, and more prayers.
Sending strength.
Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23
BrokenPieces ( member #7685) posted at 12:28 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
There are no words.. I am so, so sorry. I'm praying for your family and loved ones. I can't even imagine.
BS-43
Red Headed Imps 14 & 11
DDay 1/05
Divorce final 6/21/06
My new life is GRAND.
Married my new beginning 6/09
cryingdaily ( member #7276) posted at 12:34 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 12:42 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
So very sorry. Hugs to you and your family.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 12:57 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Oh, Phoenix,
I saw the news link and you sweet, precious, beautiful boy. My boys are 20 as well. I can only imagine the depths of grief you and all your family must be feeling, with so many losses at once. I'm angry and heartbroken, and can only send you love and many, many prayers. I hope our SI hugs will help hold you up.
((((Phoenix and family)))))
[This message edited by Grace and Flowers at 10:47 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 1:03 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 1:04 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((Phoenix and family)))
I'm so sorry to hear the news about your DS, brother, and S-I-L. 
Sending prayers for you and your family to have the strength you all need to get through each moment.
Hugs
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
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