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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:10 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so very very sorry for your loss.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 8:11 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I can't begin to make sense of this. I want this to not be true for you so very very badly. My mothers heart breaks. I have nothing. No words powerful enough. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 8:13 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((((((Phoenix))))))))
How did this happen?? 
I wish I had the words. I'm so sorry.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
ExposedNiblet ( member #30803) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so very sorry for your loss, Phoenix. There are no words.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Mack9512 ( member #38619) posted at 8:15 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so, so sorry. My heart is crying for you and your family.
"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo
clba317 ( member #8803) posted at 8:16 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((((Phoenix))))) There are no words. You and your family are in my prayers!
BS
DS9,DS5
M 11, D 8/1/05- not soon enough!
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 8:23 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Oh Phoenix, I can only pray that you feel the love from so many that have been praying and hoping with you. No words can capture the sorrow. Crying with you and for you.
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
Charity411 ( member #41033) posted at 8:25 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
((((phoenix)))) I can't even wrap my brain around this. Prayer for you and yours is all I can offer.
lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 8:31 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
((((phoenix and family))))
Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 8:40 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am crying and my heart is breaking for you. I, too, have no words for this unrelenting, unimaginable hurt and grief you are feeling. Please let others help you as you learn to cope with this. You said you are not sleeping or eating; PLEASE seek help or at least allow people to help. I'm worried about YOU. ((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
knutz ( member #28877) posted at 8:42 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family have suffered enough. I know they say that God doesn't give us more than we can bear, but how much can one family take? You and your family are in my prayers.
Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 8:48 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I'm so sorry Phoenix.So very sorry.
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
trying_2_recover ( member #28778) posted at 8:51 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
My heart breaks for your family. This is so much loss. I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts.
Divorced since 2007 from WH who has married OW.
cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Phoenix, I am so very sorry for your loss. I wish there were words to express it. I wish there were something I could do to help.
If there is, please say the word.
Again, so very sorry.
"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
There are no words for this.
I'm so sorry (((((Phoenix1)))))
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Ellejay ( member #30498) posted at 9:00 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Phoenix. Along with everyone else, my heart is breaking for you. I cannot offer anything other than prayers.
Ellejay
Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 9:04 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
((((Phoenix and family))))
My heart is broken for you and yours. I wish there was a time machine so we could bring him back. I can't imagine the depth of your grief.
You have been and will continue to be in my prayers.
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
GreatRoleModel ( member #36809) posted at 9:05 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I just saw this I am so very sorry for your loss and prayers for you and your family.
(((Phoenix)))
BS (me)
XNPDWS
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!
“If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane.”
― Robert Frost
TrustNoOne ( member #16591) posted at 9:08 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
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