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dameia ( member #36072) posted at 9:09 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Phoenix I am so very sorry for your loss. Words are inadequate to express how terrible this is. I will keep you, your family, and your son in my prayers.

Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.

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Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 9:15 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Oh phoenix I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.


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MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 9:17 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

((((phoenix and family))))

I am so, so very sorry for what you and your family are going through. I cannot imagine. Just know we're sending you all the prayers and strength we possibly can.

"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli

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jackie89 ( member #38271) posted at 9:41 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I am so so sorry.

My heart is broken for you. I wished there was a way for all of us to take your pain away.

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stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((Phoenix and family)))

You have my deepest condolences. My heart hurts so much for you. May God send peace to you and your family.

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

((((Phoenix)))))

This is just heartbreaking. May your family, friends and faith wrap you in warm comfort as you deal with this grief.

We are here, and will support you. This kind of tragedy is beyond any level of pain any one person should have to endure.

((((and strength))))

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 9:52 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

condolences are not enough right now. I offer you every bit of strength I can send. I haven't cried in quite a while, but I am now.

(((( Phoenix and family))))

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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SunsetLost ( member #3145) posted at 9:53 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

My heart is breaking for you Phoenix.. prayers for you and your family. ((((Phoenix))))

Me-BS 45, xWH 48:
Kids 2 (18 yrs and 7 yrs)
D-Day 11/15/2008
Divorced 8/23/2010

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sadcat ( member #8637) posted at 10:00 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Oh no... Phoenix I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.

Never let your fear decide your fate.....AWOLNATION

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.

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BeHappyAgain ( member #41289) posted at 10:20 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

:( You and your family are in my prayers. So many hugs for you.

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LAFA ( member #31868) posted at 10:33 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

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CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 10:33 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Oh Phoenix, I am just so unbearably sorry for your loss. As others have said, there are no words. I hope you can feel some of the love and support that we are all sending to you during this waking nightmare. Please lean on us. I know that every one of us would give everything to bring him back or to ease your pain. Just know that we are here. All of us. And we love you.

If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

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timehelps_me ( new member #12823) posted at 10:43 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

((Phoenix & family))

I am so very sorry.

Me/BS: 49
Him/FWS: 52
married 21 years
Dday: June 27, 2005

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feelsgaslighted ( member #19290) posted at 10:46 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

My prayers are with you, I am so sorry.

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 10:52 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((Phoenix and family)))

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stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 10:57 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Oh, Phoenix.

I am so sorry. So very sorry.

ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse

Lawyers involved.


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JustOneMoreDay ( member #42945) posted at 11:05 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((Phoenix)))

There are no words.

Me -BS 41
Him-WS 41
Too many Ddays to count
Divorcing.

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Kelany ( member #34755) posted at 11:05 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. My thoughts are with you and your family.

BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking

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annb ( member #22386) posted at 11:07 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

No words, tears for you and your family. I cannot fathom the depth of sorrow you are feeling.

Sending prayers.

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TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 11:08 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I can't imagine.

So sorry for your loss. Your losses.

Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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