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CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 1:09 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:15 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I am so very sorry. You and your beautiful boy are all I can think about, Phoenix. The loss is unfathomable. I hope you can feel us surrounding you in love and light. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 1:19 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((phoenix)))
There are not enough hugs, prayers or words to make this right. I just saw the news report on TV about your beautiful son and I'm crying with you and for you.
As others have said, if you need anything....
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Dobegirl ( member #41837) posted at 1:24 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I am so sorry Phoenix. My heart goes out to you and you family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
(((((Phoenix)))))
Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12...and many more
False R 2 LONG years
Time is a thief when your undecided
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 1:32 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
((((( Phoenix1 )))))
I am so sorry.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 2:01 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss
[This message edited by karmahappens at 11:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 2:09 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((Phoenix))) Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. I am so, so terribly sorry. Holding you and your family up in prayer.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:13 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Phoenix,
I am so sorry. I'm holding you and your family in my prayers.
Hugs,
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 2:18 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
LA44 ( member #38384) posted at 2:21 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
How incredibly sad. Phoenix, I am so very sorry.
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
jadedheart ( member #32046) posted at 2:24 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
my mother's heart aches for you Phoenix.
Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."
peacelovetea ( member #26071) posted at 2:32 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Oh Phoenix, I'm so sorry.
BW, SAHM
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 2:40 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I know there's nothing any of us can say to ease the shock, pain and hell you are in, so I will say this instead. Dear Lord, please have mercy on Phoenix and her family. Please help her reach peace and find comfort., Amen.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son, and for the losses of your brother and sister in law. I'm continuing to hold you up in prayers.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Mom4ever ( member #40516) posted at 3:22 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I am so sorry. Praying for you.
BW - me 59 & WXH - 52
Married - 24.5 yrs. Engaged - 2 yrs. Dated - 2 yrs. 2 DSs and 1 DD
D-Day - 6/13/2013. Divorced 12/10/2015.
I lived. I loved. I lost. I SURVIVED by the grace of God! Actions never lie. Words do! Choices have consequences.
Sapphire ( member #22517) posted at 3:25 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I am so sorry Phoenix. My heart goes out to you and your family. My prayers are with you.
Me- BS 49
Him- WH 51
D Day 3/08
Divorced 10/10
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 3:31 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
There are just no words in the human language to convey how horribly unfair, how unspeakable this is. I am so incredibly sorry. My prayers go out to you and your family, and my tears are falling for you. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
badd ( member #23468) posted at 3:34 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Phoenix, there are no words for this. May you be held close and comforted in your greif. Don't forget to let yourself be supported as you support your family. ((((((((Phoenix))))))) we are here for you.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 4:24 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I am so sorry.
(((Phoenix)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 4:39 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((Phoenix))) I am so very sorry. Capital Forest is just down the road from me. Please PM if you need an ear or a place to stay.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
ThisHell ( member #37089) posted at 4:48 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((Phoenix))) I cannot imagine what you and your family must be dealing with right now. I am so so very sorry. You and your family are in my prayers right now and will continue to be. I pray that we here on SI may be of comfort to you as those around you are and you have been to so many here. I will be praying for you daily.
Me:BW, 34/Him:BH, 34/ 3 boys, 5,8,12
4ddays, now Divorced
We are not in Kansas anymore
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