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Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 4:55 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
((Phoenix))
I am so sorry.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 4:57 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((((Phoenix)))))
I cannot imagine your heartbreak, devastation, and pain. I am so sorry. 
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 4:57 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
My son is dead. My brother is dead. My SIL is dead. My aunt is dead. My great aunt is dead. All within three weeks. I am dead inside.
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
weeping willow ( member #22800) posted at 5:11 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I am so very sorry.
((((Phoenix))))
BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 5:11 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((phoenix)))
I can't imagine....
Is there anyone with you right now?
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 5:20 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((phoenix)))
I'm sorry, I still can't come up with words for this.
AppleBlossom ( member #38541) posted at 5:36 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Phoenix, its so hard to find the words to say how desperately sorry I am. I wish there was something I could do...
allusions ( member #25376) posted at 5:36 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Oh, Phoenix, this is just an unbelievable tragedy. I am so, so sorry.
You can apologize over and over, but if your actions don't change, your words become meaningless.
Behind every crazy bitch is a sweet girl who just got tired of being lied to.
I've found the key to happiness: Stay away from assholes.
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 5:46 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((Phoenix)))
I am so sorry.
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 6:14 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
There are no words that I can offer to ease your pain. I feel so much for you right now and I can't even begin to understand what you are feeling, thinking. You are in my heart and my prayers. Do not be strong for just one moment, let all of us be strong for you and hold you up. You have been an inspiration to so many please allow us to return the grace you have given. Vent, sob, cry, cuss and use us all to express the terrible injustice that has happened to you and your family. We will still be here for you.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Violated ( member #21239) posted at 6:32 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
((((Phoenix))))
I'm deeply sorry. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
sadtoo ( member #2027) posted at 6:34 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Phoenix,
I have been thinking about you & praying for you all day. I cannot even comprehend this. I am so very, very sorry.
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 6:38 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((Phoenix}}}, no words. Just prayers that what seems to senseless will one day be answered.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
MissMouseMo ( member #38562) posted at 6:56 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
Oh Phoenix - the incomprehensible shock! If we could each take just *any* of your devastating pain away, if we could bear it for you! Please know we are all thinking of you and holding you as tightly as we can.
"I edit, therefore I am." -BionicGal
finallymefirst ( member #41060) posted at 7:09 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I'm so very sorry. ((((Phoenix))))
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 7:39 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 7:45 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I have no words. I cannot believe what life is throwing at you. This is so unfair and I cannot comprehend what you must be going through. I am so very sorry. You have made some very good friends here and they will be there for you any time of day or night. Please know we are all holding you in our thoughts and hearts.
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
refuz2bavictim ( member #27176) posted at 8:22 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
(((Phoenix and family))))
Rainbows ( member #39362) posted at 8:30 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
(((Phoenix)))
There is always a rainbow after every storm.
ray-ray ( member #29940) posted at 9:20 AM on Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
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