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Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 5:02 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
********(((((((Phoenix))))))********
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 5:04 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
OMG Phoenix. Sending prayers and anything else I got your way! (((Phoenix & family)))
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
badd ( member #23468) posted at 5:11 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
prayers and strength to you and DS have had you both in my thoughts since this all started along with so many others here.
LoveActually ( member #31030) posted at 5:19 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
My heart goes out to you. I can't even imagine. Sending prayers.
BS (Me) WS (Him) D-Day 5/29/09Married 15 yrs, together 20 yrs
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 5:30 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
(((Phoenix)))
Sending prayers.
MinorBee ( member #17895) posted at 5:32 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
I keep trying to think of something comforting to say but I'm left speechless...
I'm so sorry.
previously married for 20 years
DDays: which time?, OW's which one?
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 5:32 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
((((Phoenix)))))
I don't know what to say, but I will be praying hard. I am so sorry...
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 5:43 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
((((phoenix))))
Please take care of you during this time.
Prayers, hope and strength.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 5:48 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Strength to you. ((((((((Phoenix)))))))) 
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:23 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Oh no!
We're all here with you. Maybe he just got overwhelmed and needed to check out for a bit? Sending good thoughts for a positive outcome.
(((Phoenix1)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
purplebreeze ( member #31611) posted at 6:37 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:47 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Yes - praying he is safe.
(((Phoenix1 & son)))
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:53 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
(((HUGS))))
My heart just aches for you & your family.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:55 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Praying he is ok. Sending strength and hope.
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 7:33 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
I have no words so I will just send you strength and prayers for his safe return. (((((Hugs)))))
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 7:39 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
(((((Phoenix and DS))))))
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 7:39 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
I have been thinking of you and your family all day. So much grief. I hope he is safe. I hope you are too.
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
stroppy_wanadoo ( member #11224) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Many, many prayers and positive thoughts for you all.
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 8:22 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Prayers and love sending your way.
Hold on to faith!
My heart breaks for you!
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 8:25 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014
Praying he is safe and you hear something soon.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
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