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Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 3:27 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((((Phoenix))))

I just read about your Brother, SIL, and now your DS. I can't imagine the heartache you feel. I, along with the rest of your SI family will be praying with all of our collective might for the safe return of your DS.

Huge HUGS and prayers for you and your family.

"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 3:42 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((Phoenix))) continued strength...

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 3:53 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I just saw this! ((((Phoenix))))

Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:02 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Continued prayers.

(((((Phoenix)))))

(((((DS)))))

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 4:10 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((Phoenix)))

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yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 4:12 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Praying for you today Phoenix1

Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.

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ExposedNiblet ( member #30803) posted at 4:16 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

((((Phoenix & family))))

Divorced and happy.

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:25 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

(((Phoenix)))

BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:27 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

You are constantly in my thoughts, honey. (((((Phoenix)))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 4:58 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

You haven't left my thoughts and prayers are constant.

(((phoenix)))

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 5:45 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

.... continued prayers sent for your son's safe return.

..smy

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Sending prayers for you, and your family.

eta: Just saw his pic. What a beautiful young man! Praying for him.

[This message edited by still2suspicious at 12:11 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]

Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 5:58 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Sending you as much positive mojo as possible. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

(((Phoenix1)))

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 6:29 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

NO, NO, NO.........they found Phoenix's son's body. NO, NO, NO.................

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 6:32 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

SMS - where did you here that?

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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wanauld ( member #19045) posted at 6:33 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

I am so, so very sorry. My heart breaks for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers Phoenix.

If you want closure, start with your legs.

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 6:34 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

On the internet.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 8:26 AM, April 16th (Wednesday)]

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 6:34 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

NO, NO, NO.........they found Phoenix's son's body

How do you know this?

ETA: SMS, we cross posted.

Oh my gosh.

(((Phoenix1)))

[This message edited by abbycadabby at 12:35 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]

WHERE'S THE PUDDING?!

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 6:39 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Pheonix1 - I am So So Sorry!

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 6:39 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014

Oh Phoenix...I'm so sorry.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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