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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 6:40 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I'm very sorry Phoenix.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((phoenix)))
I can't even begin to express my sorrow for you and all that you've been through and will continue to have to deal with 
I am so very sorry for your losses
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 6:48 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
So deeply sorry, Phoenix.
There simply are no words.
We are all here for you.
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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One AMAZING DS - 34
Ascendant ( member #38303) posted at 6:49 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I'm so very sorry, Phoenix.
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((Phoenix)))
I am so deeply sorry.
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 6:51 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
(((((Phoenix))))))
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:52 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((Phoenix)))
I have no words for this.
kwash ( member #13957) posted at 6:52 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
((Phoenix and Phoenix's Father)) I am so deeply sorry for what you are going through.
woundedwidow ( member #36869) posted at 6:52 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I'm so very sorry for all your losses, Phoenix. This is simply unimaginable. All my prayers are with you and your family. ((()))
Be careful what you wish for the most - you may get it.
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
((((Phoenix))))
I am so very sorry
I have no words to express what I feel and I can't even begin to imagine what you are feeling.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 6:54 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((((Phoenix, DDs, Phoenix father)))))
I'm so sorry. There are no words.
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D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
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Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
BeingNaive ( member #30652) posted at 6:54 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so, so sorry.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 6:56 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I'm desperately sorry, Phoenix. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. We are all with you.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 6:57 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 6:58 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Love and strength to you & the rest of your family, Phoenix. I'm stunned and feel so sorrowful for you.
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
BelleStar ( member #13515) posted at 6:59 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so sorry and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
sadone29 ( member #38597) posted at 7:03 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
omg
I will continue to pray for you. I'm so so sorry.
DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.
JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 7:07 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I am so so sorry. Heartfelt sympathy and prayers to you, your dad, your girls, and your family.
Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 7:08 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
No. Oh honey. Im so sorry. So deeply sorry.
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FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 7:10 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
OMG OMG OMG i am so unbelievably sorry.
((((Phoenix))))
i am just heartbroken for you. please let us know if there is anything you need.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
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