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traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 3:46 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 3:47 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Oh honey, I am so sorry. ((Angel and family))
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 3:50 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I'm so sorry (((((Angel and family))))).
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 3:50 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I'm so very sorry for your loss. 
(((((Angel)))))
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
TrustNoOne ( member #16591) posted at 3:56 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
My condolences, Angel. I cannot imagine the depths of pain.
I'm holding you up in prayer; that He made provide comfort, strength, and courage to face the days, weeks, and months ahead.
God bless you and your family.
seethelight ( member #43513) posted at 4:02 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Angel:
I am so sad to hear that. That is horrible beyond words.
Take care of yourself
“If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:11 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Oh Honey, I am completely heartbroken for you. ((((HUGS)))) I am so very sorry.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 4:12 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
knutz ( member #28877) posted at 4:15 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Oh God. I am so sorry. There are no words that I can say that will comfort you. I hope that you can surround yourself with a support system so you can lean on them. Please reach out here and on the above-mentioned sites for support.
Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 4:16 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
OMG I'm so sorry. I'm so so so sorry.
I wish I knew of a good support place.
(((Angel and family)))
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
Angel177 (original poster member #37274) posted at 4:18 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Thank you everyone. I don't post here much but I just had to bring this here because there are so many people here I was sure someone would have some resource to offer me. Thank you I will look into both of those...we actually have a compassionate friends an hour from me and I had already thought to go there...they have monthly support meetings.
I have to take care of myself because I'm 10 weeks pregnant as well. Plus I have a 3 year old dd to think about.
I just had to answer questions like do you want your baby cremated or not? And what color flowers I want at his funeral?
The world is wrong. This is all wrong. How much can one person take in such a short period of time?
Me:BS
Him:WH
D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
D-Day 2 Oct. 12/19 different OW
In limbo
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 4:25 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I don't know. I don't know how much someone can take. But many take more than was seems possible. I'm so sorry. It's not fair, and it is not right. All of my thoughts are with you.
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 4:30 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I'm so very, very sorry.
(((((((((Angel177))))))))))
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 4:32 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
you have my heartfelt condolences. sending prayers and strength to you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:32 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
(((Angel))) I can't imagine the pain you're in and I hope you can find someone to talk to about it.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:33 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I'm devastated for you.
Holding your family in my heart.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 4:46 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
((((Angel)))) I'm so very sorry.
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 4:51 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 4:59 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I am so sorry. Any words I could say would be insufficient.
Giant hugs.
((((((((((((((Angel & family))))))))))))))
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 5:15 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
I'm so sorry (((((Angel)))))
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
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