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Dark Inertia ( member #30727) posted at 9:01 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

No words... *hugs*

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solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 9:02 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh, ((((Angel))))... I have no words, I am so sorry.

So, so very sorry. Millions of hugs to you.

BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 9:02 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

((((Angel))))

I have no words, sending you prayers of healing and strength.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 9:11 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel and Family)))

...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 9:28 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel)))

I am so very sorry for your loss.

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

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knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 9:31 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Angel,

I am so very sorry. Saying prayers for you and your family.

((((Angel)))

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 10:03 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh no, Angel. There are no words for this. I am so very very sorry. Prayers for you and your family.

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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notmeanymore ( member #9772) posted at 10:36 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Angel, I cannot even imagine what you are going through.

Wishing you peace in this difficult time.

"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

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LydiaE ( member #42571) posted at 10:39 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh, I'm so very sorry!

Take comfort in the love of your other child and your baby-to-be.

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sadcat ( member #8637) posted at 10:41 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss.

Never let your fear decide your fate.....AWOLNATION

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 10:46 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:21 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel and family)))

I am so, so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine, and words are just not adequate.

Please take care of yourself and babyangel.

Sending strength, and keeping your family in my prayers.

Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23

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rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 12:30 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

(((Angel))

I have no experience with cremation, maybe someone else?

Flowers, what about blue as well as your favorite color?

I'm so sorry and will keep thinking of you. Much love,

Rain

Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced

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suckstobeme ( member #30853) posted at 12:36 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

I'm so very sorry. There are no words. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:37 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

(((Angel))) I'm so sorry for your terrible loss.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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Alex CR ( member #27968) posted at 12:40 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

Oh Hon.....I'm so sorry......

BS Me 63
WS Him 64
Married 35
Together 41
DD 11/16/09
I can dwell in the negative or seek the positive...one road is lonely...the other teeming with life.

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Guinness23 ( member #42852) posted at 12:54 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

There are reasons for tragedy upon super tragedy to happen. God knows. We do not. All I can say is like the others: I am SOOOOO sorry for your loss! Pray for baby steps to get through this. Pray for the wisdom to understand and accept what you can't change. Be kind to yourself and your kids. This happened for reasons beyond your control, honey.

HUGE cyber hugs.

Prayer for you and your family.

Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23

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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 1:07 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

Oh dear God. My heart breaks for you!

(((Angel and family)))

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

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Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 1:52 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

(((((Angel & DS))))

I really have no words, as sorry seems so inadequate. I will hold you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. My heart just breaks for you.

"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

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Mama_of_3_Kids ( member #26651) posted at 2:08 AM on Friday, July 4th, 2014

(((Angel))

I am very sorry

Me: BW/33 The kidlets: DS16, DS12, and DD10 The hounds: Three Shih Tzu's The felines: Two short haired kitteh's

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