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Brandon808 ( member #35619) posted at 5:16 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((((Angel and family)))))

So, so sorry for your loss.

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truthsetmefree ( member #7168) posted at 5:17 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((((Angel)))))

Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo

Funny thing, I quit being broken when I quit letting people break me.

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betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 5:18 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son. Please be gentle with yourself in the coming weeks and months.

I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 5:21 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I'm so sorry Angel.

We will be here if you need us.

{{{hugs}}}

k9

BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 5:21 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh there are no words.

Please Lord send loving people to Angel and her family during this time.

Angel, make sure to drink lots of water, try to eat something.

Sending you hugs upon cyber hugs.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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MinorBee ( member #17895) posted at 5:23 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

previously married for 20 years
DDays: which time?, OW's which one?

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:33 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

no words

(((angel, son, family)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 5:34 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

So sorry (((Angel and family)))

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 5:42 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

((((((((Angel))))))

You have my deepest sympathy.

I don't know of an online support forum. This group helped me with resources and newsletters after the still birth of my son.

http://centering.org

I did join a SHARE support group. It was my lifeline in 1990.

(((((((Angel)))))))

K

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:41 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((((Angel and family)))))

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 7:47 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel)))

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:50 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((((Angel)))))

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 7:51 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

((Angel))

My deepest condolences

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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pmal64 ( member #13551) posted at 7:53 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

((hugs)) to you Angel! my heart is broken for you and your family.

if you are on facebook, there is a group "Grief The Unspoken" and the website is http://www.griefawarenessday.com/ both are immense support for my sister.

I will be praying for you.

.:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:. .:~*~:. .:~*~:..:~*~:.
BS-me-55
WH -60
"when they show you who they are, believe them"

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 7:55 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel and family)))

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BrokenButTrying ( member #42111) posted at 7:55 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel)))

I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending love and strength to you and your family at this difficult time.

I will be keeping you in my thoughts.

Madhatters - We have R'd.

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. We can do this.

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gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 8:16 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

So very sorry, Angel!

Sending prayers and hugs.

Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords

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Please1983 ( member #35894) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

So horrible. No one should have to deal with what you are dealing with. I am so sorry this has happened to your family.

BS me 30
WS him 31 (thankyou1981)
OW 19 year old at his work
Together 9 years
3 boys. 4, 3 and baby.
D-day 20 aug 2011

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BrokenPieces ( member #7685) posted at 8:40 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh sweet lady. I am praying for you right now. ((((HUGE HUGS)))) There are no words that can comfort in such a horrible time as this, but know that there are so many people here who love and care about you.

BS-43
Red Headed Imps 14 & 11
DDay 1/05
Divorce final 6/21/06
My new life is GRAND.
Married my new beginning 6/09

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shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 8:56 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

((Angel))

But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17

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