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That would be interesting, the doctor telling me I got rabies from a ONS.

Never again, gods have mercy, at least I learnt to take them seriously and run at the first mention of needing a "safe word".

But screaming apparently also works in addition to "AUUUU WTFFFF???!!! What are you doing?!!".

Aaaaand she knows where you live...

Very risky bringing a stranger to your house like that IMO.

Safe word??? <-------run like hell!------

I hope that's the last you hear from her, yikes...

OK, got me worried because even men need to be safe....fatal attraction and all.

Next time go to a hotel. Keep your address and personal email protected....maybe even burner phone for ONS sites, but that might be going to far.

run at the first mention of needing a "safe word"

I don't think having a safe word is necessarily bad. But if she gave you the safe word "more"...then that could have been the issue.

OK, got me worried because even men need to be safe....fatal attraction and all.

I totally agree. His post is scary as heck. It doesn't matter if you are male or female, if you are uncomfortable, cut that date short!! Guys might even be at greater risk because you may not be as safe (thinking nothing could happen that you could not take care of). This is so not true though. As we see here - she has his address, layout of his house, AND blood/DNA

[This message edited by EvenKeel at 1:08 PM, July 21st (Thursday)]

Here's one that just happened today:

Met a woman a few weeks ago. Agreed to meet again.

Last night she asks me out for today, "late afternoon." I say sure. Three o'clock comes and goes, four o'clock, five o'clock. I finally text her: "?"

She responds, "What are you doing later tonight?"

At that point I should have called her out on keeping me waiting on our late-afternoon arrangement, but

I text back, "Nothing, what do you have in mind?"

She texts, "I hate pressure!!"

I text back, "There was no pressure in my message. We could do blah blah or blah blah blah" (I suggest movie, dinner, bowling, dog park...)

Haven't heard from her since.

Next!

LonelyDad- I want to be your wingman.

And why hasn't GabyBaby googled "Chuck Tingle" yet?

Someone suggested I set up a profile on something called "Grindr." It's really hard to find women on there but I had lunch with a nice young Latino man who insisted on calling me, "Papi". He's coming to clean my house next week.

(That might be the funniest thing I wrote this week.).

And why hasn't GabyBaby googled "Chuck Tingle" yet?

Plenty of Kooks out there....

[This message edited by FaithFool at 9:11 PM, July 21st (Thursday)]

Great stories...what is PoF?

PoF= Plenty of Fish which is an online dating site

Thanks Chrysalis123

She started sms nuking me last night from a different number saying she missed me, wanted to be there with me and asking when to meet again.

I promtly blocked it and checked the doors and windows that they were blocked. Still got almost no sleep tonight.

Oh

My

Lord

k9

She started sms nuking me last night from a different number saying she missed me, wanted to be there with me and asking when to meet again.

How come YOU get all the fun ones????

Why am I attracting all the crazies? Tinder needs a insanity filter.

Tinder -is- an insanity filter. You've just got the polarity backwards.

The Woman Who Had 10 Husbands blew up my voicemail, etc. after we called it quits. She'd drive by my house and call and describe exactly how my car was parked that day, etc. Demanded money or she'd take me to court for God knows what. Curse me. I got a large X scratched in the paint of my metal back door. (Note - nobody post on Grindr that I have a metal back door. Just saying. Old Jedi Saying, "This is not the back door that you're looking for." )

I blocked what I could, saved the voice mails for evidence should I need it, and let crickets take care of the rest.

The Woman Who Had Pin-prick Pupils, on the other hand, was fun to be around. When, you know, the drugs had worn off.

[This message edited by devotedman at 12:43 PM, July 22nd, 2016 (Friday)]

I've gotten so many interesting msgs, luckily most the men I've met in person have been relatively normal. Today chatting w a supposedly nice man from online most of the day, going well, have quite a bit in common. Until he just invited himself over tonight after my kids go to bed. Um no, see ya buddy. That must work on some women because I've had quite a few men try to get me to just invite them over without ever having met in person

My God, I'm only up to page 2 and I have tears in my eyes.

This stuff is gold!

Another date tomorrow with a girl, dear gods of dating and love please don't be another crazy or hit me.

And yes I do feel it's different for us guys. Like me I'm quite fit, lots of muscle tone and used to abuse from ex I guess so I take a lot before I back off. Also I hate backing out of things once Ive said ok.

I'm not generally a big Dr. Phil advocate. That said,

How's that working for you?

Just saw a new profile with one pic of a guy with what looks like a purple rinse in his hair.

The text is all about how he hurt his knee and had to go the hospital. Then he got a virus because his immune system was shot from not sleeping due to the knee pain. Then the virus paralyzed him. When he got out of the hospital he was still in rough shape from the bi-weekly radiation shots and he can't drive so he can't just jump up and go out for a coffee.

But he has good coffee at his place...................... >>>>>>>> NEXT*NEXT*NEXT

[This message edited by FaithFool at 9:48 PM, July 25th (Monday)]