I know a lot of young couples because of my kids age and the fact they are also in various stages of getting married.
I hope your right, but the statistics don't look promising. Just Google "Marriage is a dying institution" and you'll see what I mean. Very interestingly, it's only dying in some socioeconomic groups, the well off/rich are still basically following the "old model", it's just that everyone below that isn't anymore. Age of marriage is increasing, divorce is rampant, as is cheating. Can it change? Of course it can, but, as it sits today, I'm not hopeful; we're pushing in the other direction; weakening marriage rather than strengthening it.
You men just need to be careful walking around living your lives. You never know when prostitutes will come leaping out of the shadows to fuck and rob you. It has to be scary.
Yeah, absolutely terrifying.
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It all makes sense if you start out with the first law of humanity “no man can resist any vagina” .
Probably more true than not. Make it easy enough, and the woman attractive enough, and, while there certainly are some who can, many cannot. Why do you think prostitution is illegal? Sure isn't to "protect women" (although that's become the common refrain now, it's been illegal for FAR longer than anyone cared much for protecting women). It's illegal primarily because, if it's wildly available and socially acceptable, well, men have a lot of trouble with it, and the women who love those men have a lot of trouble dealing with the repercussions of it. The more socially acceptable and available prostitution is, the fewer marriages, the fewer children born, etc. Now, this isn't to, FOR A MOMENT, say that men "cannot resist" the eye of Sauron, of course they can. But keep testing it, keep fiddling with "the one ring to rule them all" and well, eventually a lot of people will put it on. And net result, it's bad for society.
As you know, my A and your wifes A have a lot of similiarities. Nowhere in my imagination would I have actively worked to have an affair, or put out an ad or joined a site. But, that doesn't mean there aren't a lot of women who don't.
I guess, although it seems a little hard to fathom. I mean, how hard would it be for you to find an AP today? How much "work" would it take? A woman who sets in her mind "I want to have an A" likely won't take more than a few hours before she's, in fact, having an A. It's like of like hunting bear while standing in a zoo, pick up the gun, point, pull trigger, dead bear. Not a whole lot of "work" required.
Do some women? I'm sure they do, they want a very specific type of AP, or live in a very rural area where there are very little/no options where it won't get back to the H, want a particular kink fulfilled, etc. But if you're just shooting for your run of the mill "roll in the hay" type A, well, at least for my W, that's about as available to her as air is to me. The only comparison I can make is stepping into a cathouse with a briefcase full of cash, anything you want, for the asking with any woman you see there. That's basically my W's day to day experience, which, of course, is very, very different than my own.
Also, of note, while NSA sex is on abundant offer to my W, commitment/love/etc is NOT at all. For every 100 guys who would line up to sleep with her, very few have much/any interest in a serious relationship, particularly if all 100 of those guys are already married. That's the paradox, the thing she proports to want from an A is nearly unavailable in an A, where the thing she got from the A, well, is freely available anywhere she wants it, at any time she wants it and holds it has little/no value for her.