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UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 6:24 PM on Friday, May 21st, 2021
So, after putting it off for way too long I’m getting both hands done soon. I need recovery stories good, bad and ugly. I want to know what I’m getting myself into.
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zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 9:37 PM on Friday, May 21st, 2021
I had my right hand done about 15 years ago so I don't remember too many details.
The surgery was easy and the recovery was also pretty easy. I don't remember much pain. I do remember it taking a while before I could turn a door knob or unscrew a lid or cap off of something.
I had a great outcome. No more pain, tingling or numbness.
I hope all goes well with your surgery.
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sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 3:42 AM on Saturday, May 22nd, 2021
Recommend getting a CHT (Certified Hand Therapist) for your post-surg rehab. Many hand surgeons will specifically ask for them, but if not, be advised.
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UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 2:21 PM on Saturday, May 22nd, 2021
CHT is not even on the list of provider types on my insurance. I’ll remember to ask about the rehab before they slice me open. Everyone so far seems obligated to point out my non surgical options even tough it’s clear surgery is the best option at this point. I’m tempted to get a bidet and try to convince them to do both hands at once.
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cass ( member #24261) posted at 12:00 AM on Sunday, May 23rd, 2021
Had it done on one hand (left) many years ago with no problems. My sister also had it done on one hand with no problems and a friend had both done (not together) again with no problems. Good luck.
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:27 PM on Sunday, May 23rd, 2021
I've had 2 thumb arthroplasties, 2 carpal tunnel releases (one of which was done with the arthroplasty), and shoulder replacement.
I have memories of recovering from everything but the CTS that was done on its own. IOW, recovery was not an issue.
The reason I had the CTS surgery was that riding my bike was very painful due to hand pain. I had numbness during most days, but that didn't bother me.
Since the surgery, my hands have been fine - total success.
I'm sure there are horror stories. My reco is to call up an occupational therapist and ask for recommendations for CTS surgery and use one of the recommended surgeons or use a surgeon that a friend had a good experience with.
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UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 8:16 PM on Sunday, May 23rd, 2021
The reason I had the CTS surgery was that riding my bike was very painful due to hand pain.
How long did it take before you could ride again? My hands get so numb I can’t feel my shifters without a lot of ibuprofen before a ride.
The worst things for me are bike rides, sleeping and writing. The writing I’m pretty good at avoiding the other 2 are essential for my sanity.
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:42 PM on Monday, May 24th, 2021
How long did it take before you could ride again?
Are you kidding? I scheduled the surgeries outside of biking season.
I don't remember, and I recommend asking your doc. No matter what, even if it's 6 weeks, it's 6 weeks off the bike followed by years of no pain. And if the pain is interfering with your sleep....
What's holding you back? I mean ... if you can ride in Texas, where it can get be hot as hell at 2 AM, you're pretty tough.
IIRC, I was allowed to use a trainer pretty quickly, maybe 2 weeks. I really didn't feel like getting on the bike for those 2 weeks anyways.
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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 4:42 PM on Monday, May 24th, 2021
My husband had it done a few years ago. He had a good out come and if was not to painful.
UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 6:49 PM on Monday, May 24th, 2021
Are you kidding? I scheduled the surgeries outside of biking season.
Unfortunately I had to choose between biking season and working season. I scheduled the first surgery this morning. He said 4 weeks for lifting, need to ask about biking and bowling. This may be my summer of walking. I may need to get a trainer I’ve been told that’s the best way to learn how to unclip from you pedals without falling over.
I highly recommend a lot of watermelon for biking in Texas summers.
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UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 2:21 AM on Friday, June 11th, 2021
Um, ouch! Does anyone know the max dose I can take of Advil Dual Action? I’m going to call in the morning and ask for something stronger.
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number4 ( member #62204) posted at 4:07 AM on Friday, June 11th, 2021
I've heard of the Advil dual action, but haven't ever used it as marketed. I have done ibuprofen and acetaminophen at the same time, though.
H has an infected root canal right now; they are telling him he can take up to 800 mg. of ibuprofen for pain every eight hours. I think that's more ibuprofen than is in the Advil dual action. I know it's basically a prescription strength. So you might consider ditching the dual action, and just taking 800 mg. of regular ibuprofen. I'm sure they told you to take it with food.
I know our medical insurance has a 24/7 nurse hotline you can call at any time with questions. You might start there if you don't want to disturb your physician after hours. If that service isn't available to you, then call your local pharmacist. Hopefully that will hold you out until tomorrow morning when you can get something stronger.
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:28 PM on Friday, June 11th, 2021
Just saw the question....
Have to look at the Mg of the ibuprofen. And yes 800mg every 8 hours is the max dose.
You can also take tylenol/acetaminophen 2 500mg tablets every 6 hours, no more than that in 24 hours though, and that is if you do not have any kidney issues.
Please remember to use ice and elevate. After 24 hours most people are ok with just OTC stuff.
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UnstuffedGiraffe (original poster member #74937) posted at 12:35 AM on Saturday, June 12th, 2021
Acetaminophen 250mg
Ibuprofen 125mg each
2/ 8 hours
I added 2 regular ibuprofen 3 hrs before the next dose was due until my husband got back from the pharmacy. I have Tylenol 3 now so I’m drowsy, will probably just take it at night after today.
Typing hurts. Being left handed sucks, can’t get the other one done fast enough.
@tushnurse thank you for responding
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