Cheated no, didn’t have the time because I snapped out of ptsd so she went into trying to win me back.
Betrayal yes. She was getting into the usual pattern that leads to emotional betrayal with her boss and "friend ".
Comparing me to the other man, having his name way too often in her mouth, excitement when he called , running to the other room, speaking highly.
You know the usual…. Just friends.
Now she is awkward about with the ick just mentioning it.
I am considering it as cheating even if it is very unlikely that she slept with him, I set the score at that, safer that way knowing her. Just in case like giving a chance to heal but having the divorce papers ready.
Although she was not in therapy for her betrayal patterns but for her childhood trauma.
In fact her therapist kind of ditched her after she confessed her past serial cheating.
Not sure if it fits your inquiry
