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So, creeping on the AP. I know she is just one of many, but I know her because of finding emails and usernames and a big internet presence. Also dumbfuck LLCAH (low life cheating ass hat) talked enough about her one night to my youngest she easily found her on social media, and also worked out she was an escort 🙄

She has a totally barf worthy video of herself singing and I so- SO- want to comment. She has cultivated her Instagram as a free spirited self help Guru. She uses girl power as a hashtag, y’all.

I so super want to just comment what a piece of shit she is.

But I shouldn’t, right? Since my LLCAH is the real piece of shit. But she knew, so she is too. Girl power my ass.

I’m divorcing his ass as quickly as possible, so I really think this is pointless except it would feel so good.

Talk me down.

Or up.

Real opinions, p,ease, I’m conflicted.

Don’t. She won’t care and just might use this as publicity. These people who use attention to define themselves don’t care. There is an old saying in Hollywood that bad publicity is better than no publicity.

Just move on.

I'm a bit of a vindictive person so you should probably not listen to me...but I'd do it.

It will cause an uproar BUT if you are like me it will make you feel better.

Just be prepared for the backlash.

so yeah, don't do it

I mean, I have zero social media presence and I have him over a barrel already for the divorce, plus she dumped him, so...repercussions wise I’m not sure exist. Maybe she messages him and bitches, but god help him if he tries to bring that up! Especially since his dumb ass gave our youngest enough clues to find her.

But it’s pointless, and she really is t to blame. But girl power...really, you floozy?

Do NOT do it.

Shallow people thrive off any attention at all.

The best revenge is a life well lived.

Walk away from the computer/phone/social media, and do something spectacular for yourself.

I would personally wait until after the divorce is final and then do it. Lol

I will say though you may get zero sympathy and even people blaming you for not taking care of your man. Some people truly believe the BS is to blame for cheating and the internet especially is full of terrible people.

Do not do anything - and I mean anything - at least until the D is final. Your STBXH may use it against you.

She dumped your H? He got what he deserved.

Don’t retaliate against her using social media. You never know how 4 words taken from a 10 word sentence a cause you more pain and problems.

Example: I told my teenager once “I’m done with you and this conversation”. He still swears I said I’m done with you (which I would never say). See my point?

I love a good revenge plot/story. Read some good ones here at SI. But some have ended up arrested and in court. Be very careful.

Don't do it.

Nothing good will come from it.

And it may cause more trouble for you in the long run.

Now - the dark fantasy of doing it - I totally get that. Please feel to drop what you would like to say here - so we can all bash the stupid bitch's caterwauling with you

If I saw someone do this, I would think much more negatively of them than the person they were talking about.

Yep. Wait for your divorce to be final and then blow her shit up.

I told myself that if my H and I divorced (we are reconciling now) but if we did D, I was going to blow up his AP's fucking world. And I mean EVERYTHING.

What tushnurse wrote.