Marz posted 5/8/2020 14:33 PM

He’s wanting a free place in the storm.

Marz posted 5/8/2020 14:34 PM

Let your boys do it. He’s not needed.

HalfTime2017 posted 5/8/2020 15:40 PM

Tallgirl, C'mon. Listen to the gallery. We have been thru this.

You don't need him to do your grass. You can bet he'll want to guilt you and the boys will see it too. Daddy helped with the grass, now Mommy doesn't let him stay.

NC NC NC

Please listen for your own good.

Tallgirl posted 5/8/2020 18:11 PM

Ok.

He didn’t come.

I responded with two word. Fine. (a warning sign) and Costco.

I will do it myself. And I will fix my closet doors, and door handles.

May how to’s be on YouTube.

Carissima posted 5/8/2020 19:15 PM

Is his name on the lease/mortgage? Can you legally stop him moving back in?
You need to get your separation/divorce agreement sorted out if this is in anyway an issue.

Edited to add: If he is on the lease the chances are he's not actually looking for anything else as he knows he's entitled to move back in.

[This message edited by Carissima at 7:18 PM, May 8th (Friday)]

Tallgirl posted 5/19/2020 13:00 PM

Yes. We own the house together. He hasn’t asked to come here.

Nor have I asked.

He knows it will be hard for me if he ends up coming back.

Tallgirl posted 7/8/2020 19:03 PM

Update....

Got a good IC.
Stbxwh is NOT here
Communicate twice a month max. Not in person.

Selling the house. So soon there is no reason to talk.

Bleu posted 7/8/2020 23:04 PM

That is amazing news. One day, I hope to join you with so little communication.

99problems posted 7/9/2020 08:13 AM

Good job. I will try to draw inspiration from your example