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				    				 Phoenix1 (original poster  member #38928)		posted at 10:05 AM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	Missing since early afternoon after going hiking. It is now 2 am his time. His Army buddy went searching and we now have both civilian law enforcement and the military involved. Something is wrong. 
 
 
	I don't know how much more I can take..... 
 
			 			fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~		
	 	 			
				    				Waiting4Daylite ( member #36213)		posted at 10:30 AM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	((((Phoenix1 & Son)))) 
 
 
	I've been following your posts and will continue to send prayers, positive thoughts, hope, and hugs your way for your continued strength and for your son. 
 
			 	 			
				    				Cally60 ( member #23437)		posted at 10:30 AM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	Oh, Phoenix.  
 
 
 
	I don't know what to say, but I wanted to post to let you know I've read your message and will be thinking of you. And of your poor son, who's been through so much in the last few weeks. 
 
 
	I know that all here who read your message will, like me, be fervently hoping that he'll be found very, very soon - safe and well.
[This message edited by Cally60 at 4:32 AM, April 14th (Monday)] 
 
			 	 			
				    				Bluebird26 ( member #36445)		posted at 10:43 AM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
				Me: BW 
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.		
	 	 			
				    				Amazonia ( member #32810)		posted at 11:19 AM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	
 
 
 
	(((Phoenix))) 
 
			 			"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ		
	 	 			
				    				confused615 ( member #30826)		posted at 11:46 AM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	(((((Phoenix1))))) 
 
 
			 			BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
		
	 	 			
				    				authenticnow ( member #16024)		posted at 12:12 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
				DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair. 
		
	 	 			
				    				simplydevastated ( member #25001)		posted at 12:52 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	OMG!! I don't know what to say.  I've been following your other thread. I'm so sorry for everything you're going through.   
 
 
 
	Sending strength and (((hugs))) 
 
			 			Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)		
	 	 			
				    				Unagie ( member #37091)		posted at 1:06 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	I am sending prayers and strength. (((((Phoenix1)))) 
 
			 		 			
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 1:26 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	(((Phoenix)))) 
 
 
	That has to be so scary.  Sending prayers and mojo that he is found soon, and that he is safe and well. 
 
			 			Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			
				    				metamorphisis ( member #12041)		posted at 1:28 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	Sending love and mojo. 
 
 
			 			Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.		
	 	 			
				    				5454real ( member #37455)		posted at 1:48 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today.  Strength and Mojo. 
 
			 			BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1  5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs 
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone." 
― Sophocle		
	 	 			
				    				little turtle ( member #15584)		posted at 1:59 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	What??  
  
 ((((Phoenix)))) 
 
			 			Failure is success if we learn from it.		
	 	 			
				    				knightsbff ( member #36853)		posted at 2:10 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	Lots and lots of prayers! 
 
 
	((((Phoenix)))) 
 
			 			fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs. 
I edit often to fix stuff  ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day.  that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try. 		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 2:15 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	Prayers for your son.  Mojo sending. 
 
			 			BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Rainbows ( member #39362)		posted at 2:18 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	(((Phoenix))) 
 
 
	Been following your other thread and keeping you and your family in my prayers. 
 
			 			There is always a rainbow after every storm.  		
	 	 			
				    				betrayedfriend ( member #19785)		posted at 2:18 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	Oh ((((Phoenix)))) oh my goodness! I hope he is found safe and sound today. 
 
			 			I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.		
	 	 			
				    				LosferWords ( member #30369)		posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	(((Phoenix))) 
 
 
	I hope he turns up soon, safe and sound. 
 
			 	 			
				    				AgainandAgain ( member #34835)		posted at 2:32 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
			 
	My heart is breaking for you.  I'm praying he is found safe and sound! 
 
 
	(((((((((((((((Phoenix and DS)))))))))))))) 
 
			 	 			
				    				jo2love ( member #31528)		posted at 2:35 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014	
		 
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