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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 7:04 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss and that you have to go through this. Sending you continued strength and courage. My thought continue to be with you and your family.

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4519   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
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cissie ( member #17637) posted at 7:20 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

(Angel) My heart aches for you. I cannot imagine what you are going through. I pray that you can find the support that you need.

posts: 882   ·   registered: Jan. 6th, 2008   ·   location: limbo
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plainpain ( member #40139) posted at 7:29 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

(((Angel))) There are no words. I am so sad for you. You did nothing to deserve this. It is not your fault. It is not fair. I am so incredibly sorry for all your pain. You will survive.

Me: Believer, 40s
Him: Liar, 40s
Married 19 years
1 year EA/2 month PA/incidental infidelities I can't begin to process
OC born 2014
OW:21
In successful R. It only hurts now when it rains.

posts: 875   ·   registered: Jul. 31st, 2013
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918Mama ( member #37756) posted at 11:02 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

((((Angel))))

No words. Just hugs and prayers for peace and comfort.

Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be. -- Sonia Ricotti

posts: 631   ·   registered: Dec. 9th, 2012
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sadone29 ( member #38597) posted at 11:49 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

I'm so sorry.

DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.

posts: 1002   ·   registered: Mar. 1st, 2013
id 6861680
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:27 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

I am so very sorry. There simply are not words to express how sorry I am. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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AmSoDone ( member #43871) posted at 1:43 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

(Angel) So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. The Lord never gives us more than we can bear, even though it feels like it sometimes.

BP(me) 53
WP (scumbag) 55
On-off for 32 years
1DD
1 DGD
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.

posts: 131   ·   registered: Jun. 25th, 2014   ·   location: UK
id 6861767
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PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 2:00 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

Thinking of you... I'm so sorry for your loss.

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

posts: 3871   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2011   ·   location: Happyville
id 6861781
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looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 2:22 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. No words are adequate. You and your family are in my prayers.

(((Angel)))

Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

posts: 3619   ·   registered: Aug. 20th, 2009   ·   location: Where a river runs through it
id 6861807
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LovesLaboursLost ( member #37272) posted at 2:44 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself, and lean on your support system. No parent should ever have to go through this. (((Angel)))

I'm a work in progress.

posts: 116   ·   registered: Oct. 26th, 2012
id 6861832
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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:05 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

I'm so sorry. (((Angel177)))

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

posts: 4079   ·   registered: Oct. 22nd, 2011
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Jen ( member #26584) posted at 3:20 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

Infants Remembered In Silence, Inc. (IRIS)

I am a member of this group they are on FB ...

Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah

posts: 19991   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Where's the fucking rainbow ???
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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 2:03 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

(((Angel and family))). I am so sorry. Prayers and hugs to you.

Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.

posts: 3352   ·   registered: Dec. 22nd, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
id 6862127
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yoyojo ( member #11738) posted at 6:25 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

I am so very sorry, Angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you , your family and your precious little one. Hugs and love to you. (((Angel)))

Me-BS
H - WS
My beautiful kids, 3 innocent victims 1,4,& 5

posts: 479   ·   registered: Aug. 18th, 2006
id 6862303
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painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 6:34 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

I am so very sorry. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. My heart goes out to you.

I'm just so sorry.

DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

posts: 2249   ·   registered: Oct. 19th, 2013   ·   location: East Coast
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hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 6:52 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

there are no words...

thank you for reaching out...I will be praying for you all....

me-BS him-WS

" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."

posts: 2885   ·   registered: Apr. 24th, 2014   ·   location: sunny california
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Mommato4 ( member #15906) posted at 11:06 PM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

BS-me 34
XH-doesn't matter
4 kids
Divorced-7/25/2008

posts: 1414   ·   registered: Aug. 23rd, 2007   ·   location: PNW country
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rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 3:14 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014

I'm so sorry and saying prayers for you!!

posts: 7613   ·   registered: Dec. 6th, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 3:17 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014

(((Angel and Family)))

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

posts: 4036   ·   registered: Jun. 13th, 2012   ·   location: Massachusetts
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SweetheartVixen ( member #4956) posted at 3:48 AM on Monday, July 7th, 2014

I am so very very sorry for the loss of your son.

((((((Angel and Family)))))

BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14

posts: 3191   ·   registered: Jul. 17th, 2004   ·   location: somewhere over the rainbow
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