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Oldwounds ( member #54486) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2016
In our house. A bunch. Guest room or basement.
And then our new house just once, in the bathroom.
In his vehicle, about five times.
At AP house, and then his new house when his wife and kids were not home.
Twice in a hotel.
Ugh. Dreaded LTA.
Married 36+ years, together 41+ years
Two awesome adult sons.
Dday 6/16 4-year LTA Survived.
M Restored
"It is better to conquer our grief than to deceive it." — Seneca
trying2015 ( member #48497) posted at 11:07 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2016
Parking lot (both of their cars) just a few blocks from my job at that time...pay by the hour motel (she always paid)...her house while both her daughters were sleeping in next room.....that last one makes me sick to know....he swears she has never been in my house...I told him that would be the end of us
Me..MH.2011..i kissed another man
Him..MH..2013-2014 LTA 15 mths with married COW
Him...2009..different COW
Together 17 years...married 10
2 amazing kids
My DDay..1/1/2015..his..1/3/2015
WarehouseGuy ( member #6037) posted at 11:35 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2016
Does it really matter?
Who cares if it was in the back of a car? Who cares if it was by the dumpster behind the Chinese restaurant?
The point is---it happened. Nothing more---nothing less.
Sorry to be so blatant and up front.
whg
If you see your ex with someone else don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 11:44 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2016
LTA with COW.
Let's see:
-by a pretty little river in one of our pastures, she wanted to do her part and put out mineral for one herd of cows
-a nooner in a machine shed at his parents farm, then back to work
-a nooner in his parents basement, then back to work
-more nooners - don't know for sure
-at least 16 different hotels (maybe more), length and breadth of this province on expense account
-viewing platform at a bird sanctuary
-showed tits (he said "show me your tits", so she did) while he masterbated in her office
-side of the road in his van
-my office floor in the basement of our house
-too many quickies to count after work at his place 5 minutes from work then come home, we make supper together, do "love yous"
I found out 7 years after PA was over. Some contact through work all through that until she resigned. WW ended it by moving 2 hours away from HO to a field office.
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
WTFwashethinking ( new member #54645) posted at 1:06 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Thank you for this thread it seriously amused me only because it showed me how common trashy is
My WS most was in his car- sold within a week of day
My car once - sold within a week of dday
At her house in her sons bed (too weird for me to even understand)
Budget motels - you know the pay by the hour kind (all class)
Seriously lmao at how cliched It all is
SpecialK ( member #42372) posted at 1:19 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
At their houses, supposedly.
Time Ticks On ( member #33772) posted at 1:36 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
He did it while he traveled for work. They had sex in hotels only.
FBW- 50
FWH-51
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 25 years- together 27
What doesn't kill me, scars me.
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
The only location of which I am certain is the hotel where we had our wedding--with the Exit OW. He utterly lacked the ability to understand why this bothered me. Still does.
But there were many many many OWs. So lots of locations. None other matter.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
Breakaway ( member #50448) posted at 2:02 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
I just clarified with my husband because he said he had sex in the parking lot... And apparently it was in our car. I don't know why I assumed it was in hers. Uggh. Can I burn my car now?
Me: BW (32)/Him: WH (34) serial cheater
Married: 16 years/Children: DS 14
OWs: At least 8 over 15 years
D-Days: 2015-18 (10 total)
Devastated2015 ( member #50693) posted at 3:50 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Well.....
1st whore- (Receptionist) in his car during lunch at work in the parking lot for 2 weeks.
2nd whore- (Dumb slut he met on a plane) he was traveling for work, so in his hotel room, her car and twice at her apartment
3rd whore- (cocktail waitress) hotel room
4th whore (business associate) within 24 hours of 3rd whore, same hotel room.
IT IS STILL UNIMAGINABLE ☹️
BS Me-39WH-SA-43Married-21 years DDAY 12/03/2015 crazy OW 5 month A plus a few ONS they were all used for sexSexting!😕
Dday #2 4/8/2022
Dday#3 1/20/2024
3 Children- ages 13-20
BW2639 ( member #34875) posted at 3:56 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
In our car at a park, at a nearby lake, bj and hj in a hospital parking lot. ...at a Hotel in our city and in a hotel in city where ww went for a conferences. I'm guessing other places but I'll never know that, I suppose. But I guess the majority of the times was our car ( suburban vs his truck for more room I guess )
Lost16 ( new member #55092) posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Backseat of his truck or her car. I told him I would never ever be riding in his truck again unless I'm dead.
Me BS: 33
Him WH: 33
Married 15yrs
DDay: 08/28/16 & 08/19/17
Currently: Separating.. then Divorce
ktez ( member #46888) posted at 9:32 AM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Gosh when it's all put down here it's so bloody sleazy, dirty and rotten. And the AP usually think they are so special. Yuck
1956 ( member #33045) posted at 2:30 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
after reading this question and the answers it all sounds so disgusting.
image all the people being used and hurt for someone to get their kicks....
it's so sad
that this has become so common..........
It makes me sick
in my husband's office and in her car.......where ever she would spread her legs.
DebraVation ( member #51156) posted at 2:35 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Gosh when it's all put down here it's so bloody sleazy, dirty and rotten. And the AP usually think they are so special. Yuck
Yes, OW told me it wasn't sleazy, it was 'like a love story'. Whatever, I don't see any Hollywood producers lining up to turn it into a romantic film any time soon.
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 2:37 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
The only thing that mattered to me was that OM had sex in my fiancé.
That it was in my bed in my bedroom in my apartment was all extra.
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
Lost15292016 ( new member #53442) posted at 8:59 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Well.......started out at his home in his wife's bed. Apparently they did a little of everything in his wife's bed. The second time was in some low rent motel. Then just in his car. This high classed car lovin' took place under a bridge near where he claimed to work for a Christian radio station. 😂 He's really short so he would have her spread her legs and he would climb on top in the front passenger seat. They would wipe themselves off with restaurant napkins he would store in his vehicle. Apparently he met her near her parents house 2 hours away from our home. She thought he was going to rent a hotel. Nope. He found an abandoned factory parking lot and they did it in the car. Yep.....treated her like the whore she wanted to be. Oh they would sit and sing praise and worship songs to Jesus after screwing. PRICELESS!!!!!
[This message edited by Lost15292016 at 3:09 PM, September 28th (Wednesday)]
Me 39 WW 40
D-Day1 May 29, 2016
D-Day2 June 24, 2016
D-Day 3 August 22, 2016
BitterlyBetrayed ( member #54848) posted at 9:12 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
Both of our family vehicles.
His office.
Supposedly never in our home or a hotel room.
I didn't buy a ticket for this roller coaster and I want the hell off!
cancuncrushed ( member #28156) posted at 9:19 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
I'm not sure...but have no doubt since work travel was often involved....
hotels and her home. Mostly intoxicated.... They weren't nearly as exciting as they both felt...pretty vanilla.... rather cheap...and disgusting actually...she must feel very used, or at least she should...
Converse ( new member #50605) posted at 10:50 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
OM#1 - Their 1st date - how sweet- at a hotel, and he didn't even have to buy her dinner.
Twice in his bunk at the firehouse, he is such a "hero".
Once at her office when everyone else was gone, an invitation I had never received.
OM#2 - Twice in his man cave, one time with his 3 daughters in the house. How classy.
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