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Yes, it is dirty, sleazy and rotten. My WW thought it was fulfilling and validating. He never spent a dime on her. She was an unpaid call girl. He called, she came, they kissed, fucked and she left. She never needed him to satisfy her, satisfying him sexually was enough.

At his place he said to her "do you want me to fuck you" while they were fucking. She said "yes". Then he said "tell me". She said "fuck me". He said "tell me like you mean it" so she did, whatever that means. She did this everytime they used that particular position at his place without a cue but no where else.

Dirty, sleazy, cheap. But oh so special.

Bump - because it was mentioned in a recent post.

For my WH it was a hotel room during an out-of-town conference, then their offices (only frosted glass), once in a public park, several times in her car (parked in sketchy industrial zones), her apartment x2 when her husband was away, and our garage once when I was working late. CLASSY, RIGHT?!. These are people who could easily afford hotel rooms but felt that THAT would be crossing a line.

In my car.

At a public park.

In one of our rental homes. (not rented at the time)

At her house after her husband went to work.

Yeah, in a car, at parks where kids play, in daylight.

I hope they didn't traumatized any kids. He says there was never anyone around. How do you know that for sure? I'm sure he was concentrating on what he was doing

Once in a hotel when she rented the room on the day of her work Christmas party. He told me he went shopping for my presents. I wonder where he found them?

In the back of MOW truck in a field behind the house where her husband and kids were. They met at church. Isn't that SPECIAL??

Bj in the Applebees parking lot @ 2 AM a 2 times. He claims that is all and that he stood her up several times when they were planning to meet at her place. That is why they broke up in 2015. The texts that I have found support this, but I cannot confirm nor disprove this.

Her car, in a gravel pit.....how romantic. I asked him why they didn't go to a hotel, His reply, too expensive.

[This message edited by SouthernMama5 at 6:24 PM, July 16th (Sunday)]

The first was on the freeway on-ramp cloverleaf. It progressed from there to cars, parks, construction sites, hotels and in the OW's marital bed with her two young daughters in the house. That last one is the one that bother's me the most.

In both of their cars at a children's softball field, by a Walmart, in Abilene, Texas

They met 2x a week. At his cousins house and our house.

I thought his cousin as my family. We all met in high school.

They also met daily on his car or her car to talk and catch up about their day. They went hiking, happy hour with work friends, dinners with her friends. He took her to meet his childhood friends. She went to his office after everyone left. They had drinks in his office, Not sex because according to him she is not cheap. He still thinks she is a wonderful person. 🤢

Of course our bed was his preferred place to have sec.

Places know for sure: in our family truck (I got in & the pass. seat was all the way back and both her fully splayed handprints were clear as day in the dust in the dashboard.. Grr, this one STILL.pisses.me.off.

At several hotels, most notably one where we stayed year after year for many of our anniversary getaways.

Also OW & her wife's house (OW's by-then exW told me all about that one), and also in a condo they secretly rented together for a year.

The Assholes.

[This message edited by WowItsReallyReal at 11:53 PM, July 10th (Monday)]

Our bed of course, and in OM and her car (not at the same time) in parking lots

In the back of his van, pulled up on the side of the road was one place.

From what I gathered they had sex in our apartment and her trailer in the trailer park she lives in while her young child and her best friend were sleeping in the next bedroom. Unfortunately her young child has become used to the parade of men coming and going from her house!

Actual sex? At her trashy condo on her trashy couch with her two year old daughter a room away, or in her tiny bedroom where the bed filled up all the space her small, dinky room.

Cyber sex? He would be on our bed, in our bathroom, or in our closet on the floor (while I was at work). She would be in her bed. I guess she saved the couch for the real deal only.

I want a new bed. A new. A new bathroom. A new closet. And some days a new H.

Bump

Plenty of hand jobs - at work, on the way home, lunchtimes parked under the trees, sometimes parked by the lake.

In her - couple of times in his bed, mostly our marital bed, a bang-shit load of times.

That bed is finally gone.