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Sending mojo!

(((ZenMumWalking and DS)))

Mojo sent!

Mojo on its way.

Sending mojo, strength, hugs and everything else I can muster for you and DS.

MOJO MOJO MOJO and hugs

Thinking of you all. I hope these guys are caught and severely reprimanded. Serial criminals need that.

Short update:

DS went back to the police again on Friday. Another man was attacked. Thank goodness he reported. As far as we know, this makes 1 woman and 3 men (including DS).

They asked him some more questions, showed him some more pictures. The police believe that they have narrowed down the area where these attacks are initiated. They are trying to find the car.

They wouldn't give a lot of other information, but then one of the police officers said to DS that she was sorry it was taking them so long. I think that was a very kind thing to say.

The police are taking this very seriously, it seems to me that they are devoting quite a lot of resources to these attacks.

DS went to his EMDR right after this, he said it was very helpful. I don't know very much about EMDR, but he told me it's a lot of work for him and he sweats a lot during it. The office has a sauna and shower that he can use afterwards.

DS and I also talked about how hard it was for men to report, and I mentioned again how brave he and these other men are for reporting. I told him that it used to be difficult for women as well, but that these days rape complaints are taken more seriously than they used to. I think that we have also evolved to where this is the case for men as well. Men have a whole different set of issues surrounding rape and I am so grateful for those who have stepped up to the plate.

In this country, until about 2 years ago there wasn't even a crime called 'rape' against a man, it was 'sexual assault'. I think it is important to put this kind of attack on the same footing as rape against a female. Using the term 'sexual assault' minimizes the actions of the attack (imho).

I am more hopeful than I have ever been that these fucking bastards will be caught. Once they are, their case should be a slam dunk (if anyone can say such a thing in the law). There is no jury trial, it is in front of 3 judges. And a room full of attack victims.

OK, this was longer than I thought it would be!! I guess the update part was short, the rest is just my musings on the whole situation.

Well I'm sorry there's been another attack but dammit they will screw up and get caught. When they do I wish they could be put in a room with all their victims and just let happens happens. But alas....I'm old school lol. And today the criminal is treated better than the victim sometimes. Ugh!

I cannot think more highly of your DS than I do. Such an amazing man for all he has gone through and done. Hugs and prayers and mojo for both of you!!!

Well I'm sorry there's been another attack

Sadly, I think this is what is helping to close in on them.

I wonder if they could do a sting operation where a cop under surveillance goes to a bar. Wouldn't it just be the cats ass to have this creep try to attack a cop then get taken down but a bunch of them.

Breaks my heart that this vermin is getting away with more attacks.

Yes, so sad that there has been another victim in this. I agree that it is very brave of them to have come forward like your son. I wonder how much the fear of disease that can be deadly adds to the mindset that they do report. I'm sure in many if not cases they need to overcome fear and embarrassment to do so besides.

Huge hugs to DS and all the victims of these attacks. There and anywhere. And MOJO for the police to close this ASAP. I'm glad your son received a compassionate sort-of apology for the time this is taking. They should be very thankful that he has continued to cooperate in the investigation.

It breaks my hear that another person has been attacked by this serial rapist. Thank God for their strength in reporting the crime. You and your son are doing an amazing job of facing this head on. Hopefully the police find this sick person before another person is raped.

Your DS is being very brave. Sending, mojo for,the capture of these animals.

oh, ((((Mum)))

Sending strength and love.

Police called again today, DS going in tomorrow. To me, this either means that they think they have caught the guys or there has been another attack. It's also possible that some other evidence has turned up from the previous attacks though.

I'm leaving in the morning to go to Japan, but I'm hoping that he will be done with them before I have to get on the long flight over.

Please send mojo for DS and for the police.

Mojo mojo mojo!!! Praying they have caught the bastard.

More prayers and mojo for DS and you.

Every time you post I hope it’s to tell us the SOB have been caught.

Just give us a call and tell us where and when and your friends on SI will converge wherever you are with our torches, pitchforks, tar-and-feather….

Please, Lord, let these monsters be caught and punished.

Sending mojo his way! Hope this is finally a good sign that the attacker (s) have been identified and caught.

MOJO to DS that this is good news and MOJO that you get his good news in time to give you peace of mind for your trip.