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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 4:26 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Sending prayers and (((HUGS))).
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 7:24 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Prayers have been said. I hope this boy has a full recovery. I have a friend who’s husband had thyroid cancer in his 20s and has since recovered . (That was 10 plus years ago).
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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:51 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Sending healing thoughts. I’m sorry you are going through this but how lucky for your friend to have you there for her.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 10:00 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Thank you all for the prayers and kind words.
Drgn -surgery was about 6 hours. The mass they got out was 7x10 cm. Unfortunately they were unable to remove it all due to ot being in blood vessels.
He is recovering well but chemo is for sure in this young man's future.
My friend is amazingly strong and being as brave as she can. Should know more tomorrow.
Keep them in your thoughts and prayers please!!!
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 10:22 PM on Wednesday, January 1st, 2020
Thank you Tush for the update. It was on my mind all night.
As smy said
problems here amount to small potatoes compared to a mom and dad watching their child fight for their life.
Sat there looking at all my kids thinking damn I'm lucky.
Praying. And sending mojo and all other means of healing positive energy to this young man.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Hope2B ( member #40474) posted at 8:42 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
Glad to send mojo and prayers!!!
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:44 AM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
More mojo and strength for his future treatments.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 1:55 PM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
Good thoughts and Mojo for his recovery and treatments
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 2:58 PM on Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
Sending tons of prayers, mojo and hugs. Keep us posted when you can, Tush...
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 12:26 AM on Friday, January 3rd, 2020
Prayers, mojo and paws crossed! How is he ding?
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 3:03 AM on Friday, January 3rd, 2020
Prayers for a full recovery from both surgery and further treatment!
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
burninghouse ( member #63308) posted at 3:44 AM on Friday, January 3rd, 2020
Sending prayers and healing mojo.
BW (me)
WH (him)
D-day 3/2018
Divorcing
Reminding myself often, "The last of the human freedoms: to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor Frankl
tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 3:00 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2020
To those following he did get to go home from the hospital yesterday afternoon.
I have not heard from my friend yet this morning, and I am hoping to heck that means they are all getting some good sleep, because she was wiped out yesterday afternoon.
Now he heals, and we await the Pathology report to determine next steps. However they were told yesterday that there will be some form of radiation therapy, I suspect chemo as well.
Continued prayers mean a lot.
Thank you ALL!!!!
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 3:07 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2020
Thank you for the update.
Wow I didn't expect he would go home so soon. That's good. And yes prayers they are all resting well.
Will continue with sending all I can.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:32 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2020
Thanks for this update TN, and more mojo to the whole family for a positive treatment outcome.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 6:02 AM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2020
Thinking of your friend and the family.
🙏
me-BS him-WS
" I will not define myself by what went wrong yesterday when I can draw upon Life and Love right now."
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 12:58 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2020
Baby steps. Sending light and love his way.
I wonder if proton therapy would be an option to reduce extra cellular damage.
Thanks for the update.
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
tushnurse (original poster member #21101) posted at 1:31 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2020
For those following....
Pathology came back. He has an extremely odd form of malignancy, in fact so that the numbers of people with it in the last 50 years is under that number.
They are sending path results to the leader in the treatment of this in the US, and awaiting their read on this, and then will probably travel there for treatment plan, and intiation of treatment, but the outcome from this weird cancer often leads to death within 2-4 years from date of diagnosis. And if/when chemo is effective it is a bastard to survive.
So continued prayers, support, mojo, and positive thoughts are appreciated. My friend is amazing me with her strength, and positive outlook.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:34 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2020
Hoping/praying for the best outcome. I can't imagine. 
((((TN, friend, son))))
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 2:52 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2020
Sending prayers for this young man and his family.
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