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				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 7:44 PM on Wednesday, September 11th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 7:32 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, September 20th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 10:03 PM on Wednesday, September 25th, 2013	
			 
	I wish we can sticky this with a note that this is someone's opinion if you care to read. 
 
			 			Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				lostcovenants ( member #40637)		posted at 3:03 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013	
				DDs, 1977 (prostitutes), 7/8/13 (LTA MOW), 11/14 (CL), 9/1/15 (PA).
Porn, 2DUIs, blame-shifting. I told both families & adult kids. I was suicidal and cutting.
I moved out for 2 years, he asked me to come home 10/16. R w exit plan.
STD discovered 		
	 	 			 
				    				suposd2btheonly1 ( member #40753)		posted at 3:26 AM on Saturday, September 28th, 2013	
				Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW:  22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head		
	 	 			 
				    				hard_yards ( member #23549)		posted at 4:15 AM on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013	
				
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right... 
		
	 	 			 
				    				HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144)		posted at 6:24 PM on Friday, October 11th, 2013	
				Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley		
	 	 			 
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 6:13 PM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			 
				    				hard_yards ( member #23549)		posted at 11:16 AM on Monday, October 14th, 2013	
				
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right... 
		
	 	 			 
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 5:45 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 12:02 AM on Wednesday, October 23rd, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				Skan ( member #35812)		posted at 5:23 PM on Thursday, October 24th, 2013	
				Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
  		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 8:52 PM on Friday, October 25th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				mchercheur ( member #37735)		posted at 7:11 PM on Monday, October 28th, 2013	
				Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be		
	 	 			 
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 2:49 PM on Thursday, October 31st, 2013	
				Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			 
				    				Lionne ( member #25560)		posted at 8:50 PM on Monday, November 4th, 2013	
				Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 12:45 AM on Thursday, November 7th, 2013	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				jjct ( member #17484)		posted at 12:49 AM on Sunday, November 10th, 2013	
		 			 
				    				Jrazz ( member #31349)		posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013	
				"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom		
	 	 
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