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repeatBS326 ( member #22068) posted at 5:59 PM on Friday, September 4th, 2009
Dear DS12,
I can't believe you'll be a teenager this Sunday! OMG, that makes me feel old when I say I have a "teenage" son.
I'm so glad you're in my life! You have brought me so much joy & showed me unconditional love from day 1. I'm so sorry it took me a while to bond with you when you were first born...I was scared & just had an emergency C-section and was sore & loopy from the meds. Being a new mommy & learning to breastfeed was a HUGE responsibility. I just hope I didn't screw-it-up!
Love,
Mom
Me/BS:39(former cybersex addict 1992); fWH:41; DS:15; DS:11; OW:34; OC:10
Together: 22yrs; Married: 18yrs
D-day#1: Jan99, then FALSE R (subsequent conception of DS#2)
D-day#2: Told about OW/WH pregnancy July2000
D-day#3 (same mOW): 19sep2008
Prayin4Daylight ( member #15710) posted at 6:09 PM on Friday, September 4th, 2009
Dear repeatBS326,
That was a lovely post.
Sincerely,
Prayin
Prayin
Elected Voting Vixen
BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 7:54 PM on Friday, September 4th, 2009
Dear laptop,
Please hang on til Wednesday. The PC doctor is coming soon.
Love,
BR
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
repeatBS326 ( member #22068) posted at 3:00 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Dear Life,
What's going on? Weeks ago, everything was almost perfect @home...now, you're pulling me into despair? What gives?
Sincerely,
Confused & dazed
Me/BS:39(former cybersex addict 1992); fWH:41; DS:15; DS:11; OW:34; OC:10
Together: 22yrs; Married: 18yrs
D-day#1: Jan99, then FALSE R (subsequent conception of DS#2)
D-day#2: Told about OW/WH pregnancy July2000
D-day#3 (same mOW): 19sep2008
repeatBS326 ( member #22068) posted at 3:05 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Dear coworker,
You creaped me out yesterday. Yes, I've lost some weight & everyone @work knows it. But, I haven't lost another pound in months. I don't know if your comment yesterday about "are you still dieting? keep it up, looks good" was a genuine compliment or some inappropriate come-on. U talked to me for like 30 minutes about my diet & exercise program while hovering in my office doorway, but I just started feeling really uncomfortable when u said "I noticed you're still losing weight, when I looked @you when we passed in the hallway." I usually don't make eye contact with anyone, so I didn't even notice you "looking" at me.
Sincerely,
Ewwww....just ewwwwww.
Me/BS:39(former cybersex addict 1992); fWH:41; DS:15; DS:11; OW:34; OC:10
Together: 22yrs; Married: 18yrs
D-day#1: Jan99, then FALSE R (subsequent conception of DS#2)
D-day#2: Told about OW/WH pregnancy July2000
D-day#3 (same mOW): 19sep2008
Defiance ( member #8265) posted at 3:09 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Dear Mom,
I miss you. Every single day.
Love,
Your son.
Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.
ittybittya ( member #7527) posted at 3:13 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
(((((Defiance))))))))
...still has much to learn :-(
Defiance ( member #8265) posted at 3:17 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
I have to tell ya, Itty. I've wanted so badly to call and talk with her lately. To hear her voice.
Do you suppose there are phones in heaven?
-D 
Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.
ittybittya ( member #7527) posted at 3:44 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Oh D You have seriously caused me to tear up.
(Itty doesn't do this easily).
If I can just put my little virtual arms around you ((((((D)))))) and say, you don't need a phone. I'd like to think that she's with you every single moment of every single day. And she's so proud of you and she's in your corner, where she has ALWAYS been. 
I would like to think she knows your struggles now better than she knew when she was with you. SHE KNOWS (((((D))))))).
...still has much to learn :-(
repeatBS326 ( member #22068) posted at 3:53 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
(((D)))
I often think of my "passed on" loved ones as my & my children's guardian angels. I am crazy, but I just mentally talk to them when I need their support. Try it, it'll make you feel better.
Me/BS:39(former cybersex addict 1992); fWH:41; DS:15; DS:11; OW:34; OC:10
Together: 22yrs; Married: 18yrs
D-day#1: Jan99, then FALSE R (subsequent conception of DS#2)
D-day#2: Told about OW/WH pregnancy July2000
D-day#3 (same mOW): 19sep2008
cass ( member #24261) posted at 10:14 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Dear Def
I'm sorry you are feeling the loss of your mother so badly right now. Remember a mother's love trancends time and space. It is with you always, enveloping and comforting. Have no doubt. I'm a mother - I know these things....
Here are a couple of pics to cheer you up I hope. Just something I came across while at Wetlands yesterday (the wildlife trust on the coast).
The Barnacle Geese are flying in from Svetsland, Norway at an enormous rate. Only 1 on 17th September - now nearing 6,000. This will rise to 30,000 soon. We are so fortunate to have them here with us.
The other is a pic of an Osprey's Nest. Yes a re-construction but nevertheless an awesome task in building a future - there's a message here somewhere. Keep building and working to build.
how do I get these pics to be BIG???
[This message edited by cass at 4:36 PM, October 2nd (Friday)]
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
cass ( member #24261) posted at 10:34 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Dear young girl behind the desk of the Big City Observation Wheel in Belfast.......
No I am NOT a fucking old age pensioner and DO NOT want a concessionery ticket with £1 off - stick it!!!
Your colleague behind you cannot stop laughing at the nerve of you asking me this. My friend beside me here wants to punch your lights out!!! I am trying to stop her. She is only 45 years old and is gorgeous, as am I......
I am going to get you back by pushing the emergency button whilst at the top - so that you have to bring us down, slowly...... I'm sorry that everyone else will just have to 'go with the flow' and come down as well. I hate heights and flights but did this because it was there - and as George Mallory stated - I climbed it because it was there. I will be a long time dead - well forever actually so I am going up there regardless of my fear.
My friend here jumped out of a plane at 14,000 feet in Australia recently. She had 2 broken ribs but did not tell the instuctor that because she new he would not let her jump. She was determined to do it. At the last moment her earpiece broke so she could not receive instuctions as to when she should jump. She said to herself 'fuck it - I'll just jump' - which she did. The message is - best not mess with us!!!!
[This message edited by cass at 4:44 PM, October 2nd (Friday)]
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 10:49 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Dear beer:
Can't wait to see* you tonight.
Love,
Mighty Thirsty
*drink
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 11:18 PM on Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Dear Zen Master,
Now I think I know the sound of a door not opening.
TH
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 1:21 AM on Saturday, October 3rd, 2009
Dear TH,
You have to listen for the window sometimes.
Hugs
Ria
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
travels ( member #20334) posted at 2:21 AM on Thursday, October 15th, 2009
Dear Open Letter,
I will rescue you from page 10!!!! 
[This message edited by travels at 8:22 PM, October 14th (Wednesday)]
When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."
TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 3:14 AM on Thursday, October 15th, 2009
Dear DS's:
Really, when I said I need help moving furniture, I meant this week, not next year.
Sheesh.
TH
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
lingerdog ( member #24459) posted at 4:33 AM on Thursday, October 15th, 2009
Dear birthday,
Take your time, I don't really want to be thirty.
Sincerely,
Linger
What lies behind us & what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
Oliver Wendell Holmes -Stolen from Uni's page
Threnody ( member #1558) posted at 5:28 AM on Thursday, October 15th, 2009
Dear Dishes,
I know what you get up to when we turn the lights out at night. Don't think I'm unaware of your multiplying. I have three kids. I know how that all works now.
Signed,
Paper Plate Parent
Dear Cats,
Me <--- warm
You<--- warm
Me <--- tired
You<--- tired
Me <--- comfortable
You<--- have sharp pointy bits that you keep using on me and making me uncomfortable
Stop. Before I feet you to the coyotes.
Love,
Your Bed
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
kdny ( member #760) posted at 12:45 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2009
Dear OL,
Hello, its nice to see you again.
Love,
kd
Whether we remain ash or become phoenix is up to us.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Sometimes the fine line between a nervous breakdown and knowing things will be okay is a pair of furry pants~unfound
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