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tulipcitymadman (original poster member #28660) posted at 3:23 AM on Friday, July 9th, 2010
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hope4now ( member #13364) posted at 3:58 AM on Friday, July 9th, 2010
(((TCMM)))
TY...I needed a smile tonight! Nothing like a mini-van to cramp her new single style. 
GREAT move!!
I've been following your trials, but haven't commented yet. Just wanted to let you know that I am in awe of your ability to see things with such clarity. Honestly, you should consider writing a book. I wish I had been as clear-headed in those early days of this nightmare.
Keep taking the high road, you're an inspiration!
hope
Me: BW
WS
2 sweet kids
Separated 1 year, reconciled days before divorce was final
God can create beauty from ashes
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:19 AM on Friday, July 9th, 2010
Oh, hell yeah. 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
andyd1950 ( member #20018) posted at 9:36 PM on Friday, July 9th, 2010
What an excellent birthday present you gave me !
I haven't laughed like that in years.
Go for it !
As they say "Payback's a bitch".
BS (me) - 61
fWW (her)- 57
Married 39 years March 17,2012
Forgiving, that's easy.
Trusting again, that's hard.
Forgetting, impossible!
"When you take things for granted, the things you are granted get taken away."~ RevRun.
tulipcitymadman (original poster member #28660) posted at 12:53 AM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
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crazycatlady ( member #12849) posted at 1:16 AM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
I freaking love this.
Keep on Trucking!
Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none.William Shakespeare "All's Well That Ends Well"D-Day: Nov 30, 2006"For I have sworn thee fair, and thought thee bright, who art as black as hell, as dark as night." William Shakespeare
andyd1950 ( member #20018) posted at 3:37 AM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
I can hardly wait to hear what happens.
Wish I could be there to hear the screams.
BS (me) - 61
fWW (her)- 57
Married 39 years March 17,2012
Forgiving, that's easy.
Trusting again, that's hard.
Forgetting, impossible!
"When you take things for granted, the things you are granted get taken away."~ RevRun.
feelinghurt10 ( member #28600) posted at 6:02 AM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
I'm looking forward to the rest of the story on Sunday!
Me- BS-51. Dday #1 4/3/2010 ; Officially divorced - 10/26/2012"No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow." ~Maya Angelou
Cally60 ( member #23437) posted at 8:03 AM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
it is amazing how your feelings change about someone when the respect and trust is gone.
So very true. In every situation, I think - not just infidelity.
PS A belated "Happy Birthday" to you, Andyd1950 !! 
TNK4563 ( member #24923) posted at 8:17 AM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
WOW, and you even made it look like you've done a good thing for her!!! TCMM, you are so considerate!
I will be fascinated by the conclusion of my psychological experiment on her princess mentality (damn cake eaters!).
That'd definitely be a convo for the VAR.
Me BH 46
Her FWW 41
2 DS 19 & 18
Married 20 years
Reconciled
libbycat ( member #29011) posted at 2:57 PM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
TCMM - I've been lurking here for about a week or so and have read your story in both threads. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Stay strong!
I was reading about the minivan this morning during breakfast. I about blew corn flakes out of my nose laughing so hard! i loved the Captain Ron remark! Karma is such a bitch and this is just a small dose of what she deserves! I wish I could be a fly on the wall when she realizes that's her new ride!
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1st Dday - approx 2002. Denied...
2nd Dday - April 2007. Admitted to porking his secretary.
3rd DDay - July 2010 - "flirting" texts with new secretary.
D - filing pending.
I'm done. I deserve much better than this.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:56 PM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
Too bad you couldn't have a really nice airbrush painting on it, like mermaids and stuff.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
aliveagain ( member #25751) posted at 5:26 PM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
Beauty is only pool deep. I can understand your comment about not wanting to touch her. I felt the same about my x, she is 5'10" tall without shoes on, blond and looks like Barbi, always turned heads when she walked into a room. When I looked at her after I found out all I could see was the uglyness of her soul comming through. I now undrstood that certain eye look she had that seemed evil that I caught now and then that I now realize was the norm. She was masking it from me before but didn't have to anymore, why didn't I see it beore? Have you noticed that look?
HowMany ( member #24506) posted at 6:56 PM on Saturday, July 10th, 2010
I wish, wish, WISH that you could VAR her reaction and post it here. LOLLL Your a superstar!
Your actions speak so loudly I can't hear a thing you're saying.
It must have been like throwing a hot dog down a hallway with all the room in there. - Runorstay
tulipcitymadman (original poster member #28660) posted at 1:57 AM on Sunday, July 11th, 2010
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aliveagain ( member #25751) posted at 2:37 AM on Sunday, July 11th, 2010
Cancel purchase, let her buy her own car, the captain can chip in.
tulipcitymadman (original poster member #28660) posted at 2:49 AM on Sunday, July 11th, 2010
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TNK4563 ( member #24923) posted at 4:12 AM on Sunday, July 11th, 2010
Before she left, she told me that her and my son “wanted to go diving tomorrow”. Because he isn’t legally my son, I can’t keep him from being near the “new dad”.
Even though he isn't legally your's, this isn't a good environment for your son. She is not only "rubbing your nose in it" but also the FOCs recommendation. Inform your attorney of her actions.
Me BH 46
Her FWW 41
2 DS 19 & 18
Married 20 years
Reconciled
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:25 AM on Sunday, July 11th, 2010
You're doing REALLY well, keep up the good work.
It will so pay off.
I hope you're keeping an extremely detailed journal of her comings and goings.
What a loser.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
MadhatterMama ( member #26953) posted at 4:20 PM on Sunday, July 11th, 2010
TCMM
It does not matter that you are not your son's biological father. The FOC ordered no third party contact FOR THE CHILDREN. PERIOD. I assume they did NOT specify the girls only... Report her ass!
"The sun never says to the earth,
'You owe me.'
Look what happens with a love like that.
It lights up the whole sky."
-Hafiz the Poet
You will never know how strong you really are until you have no options but to be strong...
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