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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 12:55 AM on Monday, May 5th, 2014

Bump

BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

posts: 2859   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012
id 6785500
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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 8:41 PM on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014

bump

Sit. Feast on your life.

posts: 4324   ·   registered: Jan. 16th, 2014   ·   location: NYC
id 6788054
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:03 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014

bump

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 19030   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6789497
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mountainmomma ( member #34388) posted at 9:19 PM on Thursday, May 15th, 2014

Bumpity bump

Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60

posts: 180   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: U.K
id 6800637
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 10:57 PM on Friday, May 16th, 2014

bump bump

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 19030   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6802313
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:37 AM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014

Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 21 &23
Married for 28 years now, was 16 at the time.
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 19030   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6808460
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BlackHorse ( member #43459) posted at 12:56 AM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014

Thanks "tushnurse" for looking out for us newbies.

Not together long enough - too many long separations due to her continuing medical issues.
Me - Canadian.
She - American.
Both of us in our fifties.
D-Day - 04/30/14 (while she was away seeking medical assistance in her homeland)

posts: 82   ·   registered: May. 18th, 2014   ·   location: The West Coast of Canada
id 6808487
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 9:34 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014

Bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
id 6811551
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omoiyari1985 ( new member #43451) posted at 3:41 AM on Monday, May 26th, 2014

This is really disappointing, if I only would discovered this website and this topic 6 weeks ago. I would've realized my WS wasn't ready for reconciliation.

Now I she has destroyed my perception of her and continuously lying that R isn't on my radar for 2014

BS, BH : 29
WS, WW : 28 (PA, EA) Bipolar, depression, anxiety.
OM, HW, AP: Starbucks barista lives with his mom
DD: beautiful 6 yr old
Married: 3 yrs, together 7+
Dday May 25th

posts: 18   ·   registered: May. 16th, 2014   ·   location: Houston
id 6812489
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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:40 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014

BUMP

Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 6812804
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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:45 PM on Friday, May 30th, 2014

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6817918
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Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 7:53 AM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014

bumpity bump

Me: BS, 40's.

posts: 1956   ·   registered: Jul. 29th, 2011   ·   location: West Coast
id 6820495
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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:26 PM on Thursday, June 5th, 2014

bump

Sit. Feast on your life.

posts: 4324   ·   registered: Jan. 16th, 2014   ·   location: NYC
id 6825295
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 10:34 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014

bump

posts: 11293   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 6829154
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norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:09 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014

bump

Sit. Feast on your life.

posts: 4324   ·   registered: Jan. 16th, 2014   ·   location: NYC
id 6838706
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BuckeyeBlues ( new member #43373) posted at 7:26 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014

Thanks for this - I am happy to report that my husband appears to be truly remorseful...he has done the majority of things needed for reconciliation. He has been honest with me about the OW, answering all my questions, has written a NC letter (even though he broke it off before I found out), lets me see his phone and tablet any time I ask (many times offering it to me if I haven't asked), let me put a GPS tracking device on his phone, so I can see where he is. He has not blamed me at all....says it's all him.

Married for 19 years
Me: 44, BW
Him: 53, WH
2 teenagers
D-Day: 5/7/14
Taking it one day at a time...

posts: 22   ·   registered: May. 8th, 2014
id 6838994
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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:32 PM on Thursday, June 19th, 2014

bump

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

posts: 4517   ·   registered: Jan. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Northeast US
id 6841931
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 8:43 PM on Wednesday, June 25th, 2014

Bump

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6848919
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 3:45 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2014

Bump for the new members.

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
id 6851472
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Schadenfreude ( member #43075) posted at 3:04 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014

Bump. A lesson that needs repeating

posts: 892   ·   registered: Apr. 11th, 2014   ·   location: Midwest
id 6860962
Topic is Sleeping.
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