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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:33 PM on Saturday, December 6th, 2014

bump for weekend

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 11:02 PM on Monday, December 8th, 2014

Great update. All the important links too.

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
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UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 2:57 PM on Tuesday, December 9th, 2014

Bump again.

ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.

posts: 339   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012   ·   location: NY
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Ready2beFree ( member #45913) posted at 3:57 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this great post!!!!!!

D-Day: 11/10/2014

posts: 69   ·   registered: Dec. 10th, 2014
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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 4:10 AM on Friday, December 12th, 2014

These are great pieces of advice to help us all. Thank you for bumping this.

Me FBS early 40s
Him XWS mid40s (lovemywife4ever), D
He cheated before M, forgot to tell me
Free and loving life

posts: 3122   ·   registered: Dec. 22nd, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
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Remember ( new member #46025) posted at 3:22 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014

Bump.

Me: 33
Her: 27
D-Day: 12/16/2014
Status: Trying to find my way again

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=548985

posts: 16   ·   registered: Dec. 19th, 2014
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:28 PM on Friday, December 19th, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:17 AM on Thursday, December 25th, 2014

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:59 PM on Saturday, January 3rd, 2015

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7065266
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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 6:52 PM on Wednesday, January 7th, 2015

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 7069946
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 5:02 PM on Saturday, January 10th, 2015

bump

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 7073800
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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 12:22 AM on Sunday, January 18th, 2015

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7082962
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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 8:31 PM on Monday, January 19th, 2015

bump

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

posts: 5668   ·   registered: Nov. 12th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 7084894
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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 8:27 AM on Thursday, January 22nd, 2015

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7088027
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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 2:48 AM on Thursday, January 29th, 2015

bump

"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

posts: 5955   ·   registered: Aug. 8th, 2013   ·   location: AZ
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cantaccept ( member #37451) posted at 1:18 AM on Monday, February 2nd, 2015

bump

"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

posts: 3505   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2012   ·   location: Connecticut
id 7101312
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brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 4:32 AM on Sunday, February 8th, 2015

bump

Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

posts: 2094   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2010   ·   location: Northwesten US
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devotedman ( member #45441) posted at 9:46 PM on Tuesday, February 10th, 2015

bump to keep with 20/20 hindsight post

Me: 2xBS b 1962
xWW after 2 decades, xWGF after almost 1.
Amelia Pond: Who are you?
The Doctor: I don't know yet. I'm still cooking.
ENFP-A. Huh.

posts: 5103   ·   registered: Oct. 30th, 2014   ·   location: Central USA
id 7112903
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 1:35 AM on Sunday, February 22nd, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7125757
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 12:29 AM on Sunday, March 8th, 2015

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7142561
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