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Threnody (original poster member #1558) posted at 1:32 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Mr. T has a tremendous opportunity on the horizon. He has interviews with no fewer than six people at different times throughout tomorrow at a certain corporation, and then next week he has a part of day of phone interviews with the people who couldn't be scheduled for tomorrow.
There are many reasons this job change would be good for him. It's not about the money -- in fact, it will probably pay the exact same. But there are many pressures in his current position because of abysmal leadership and unclear business direction, which in turn affects his ability to keep an IT team functioning. He takes great pride in his work, as he should, and it's heartbreaking to see all he's having to deal with and what the grind is doing to him. It's toxic and he needs to be out.
Beyond that, this new position would open some quite nice doors for later growth in his industry. He's a leader in it, no doubt about it, but this change would enable him to really create some amazing things for use by the government and corporations around the United States.
He needs mojo. Tomorrow and Monday, all you can spare. I know the power of SI goodwill. Thank you.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
Too_Trusting ( member #99) posted at 1:38 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Mucho Mojo coming to Mr. T for all of his interviews! I know the power of SI works. It's worked for me several times.
MOJO...MOJO...MOJO!!
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:49 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Sending mojo.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 1:50 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Sending a ton of mojo!
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 1:51 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
I pity the fool who don't hire Mr. T!!!
sorry. Can't help it. I think it is so cool that you are married to Mr. T.
MOJO!!!!
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:57 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:11 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 2:28 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 2:54 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 3:10 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Sending lots to you and Mr. T.
Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 3:17 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
unfound ( member #12802) posted at 4:15 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
coming at cha.
ka-mai
*************
Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 4:20 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Mojo and good thoughts going out for you!
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 4:21 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 4:29 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:10 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Mojo!! Good luck
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:24 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Big mojo heading Mr. T's way.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Threnody (original poster member #1558) posted at 5:46 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Thank you. I'm just beside myself at the moment, overwhelmed at the thought that this may be the light at the end of the tunnel.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:46 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 12:41 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2013
Sending a lovely, jumbo assortment of mojo his way!
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
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