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TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 8:26 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Mine is pretty obvious. Since this is my second marriage with a cheater, my trust is gone and I don't think it will ever return again. 
Plus everyone shortens it to TG. 
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
jstbreathe ( member #40829) posted at 8:35 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Because I had to keep telling myself to "just breathe." Also, from the song by ANNA NALICK, "Breathe (2 AM)"
The trust of the innocent is the liar's most useful tool.
Stephen King
Me: BW
Him: WH
Married: 20 years
2 sons, 13 & 17
Raising my sons
maxandsen ( member #37173) posted at 8:42 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
It's a mix between mine and FWH names. I have second guessed that choice several times
DWBH ( member #35512) posted at 8:45 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
That makes a lot more sense than any of my guesses, DWBH.
Yeah, I had no idea what all the acronyms were when I joined... I'm sure most folks think my name is Don Walton, or something like that...
Me: BH, 51
Her: FWW, 50 (ThornyRose)
M: 21 years, together 25
2 Daughters: 23 and 21
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~
LadyLove ( member #40664) posted at 8:47 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
My WH calls me Lady.. and says it with love 
.
BW - 50 (me)
WH - 51 Ladyslove
DDay Fall 2012
Don't know if I can live with it.
Always trust your gut. It knows what your head hasn't yet figured out. - Unknown
SuperDuperWonderboy ( member #34716) posted at 8:47 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Do I even need to say anything? DS and MH assigned me this name due to my awesomeness.
My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 8:48 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Do I even need to say anything?
Never.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
heartache101 ( member #26465) posted at 8:50 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
I was thinking they need to teach a class to High School Students and college students about infidelity. Was wondering what they would call it...
Heartache101
There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 8:56 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
I was thinking as a child, sometimes the grass would look all nice. Then walking bare foot you would step into some innocent grass and hit a patch of those round stickers. I called it a prickle patch. As they would get in my feet. I liken this whole ordeal as a big principle patch. Painful and not knowing where to step to get out of it.
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 9:00 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Some things about the nature in my yard, that I will have to leave soon.
Chances are I will ask to change it when I'm in a new place.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 9:02 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
"Spell" is because I proofread and edit med-legal reports all day. "jean" is the short form of my middle name.
WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
Completelybroken ( member #40051) posted at 9:50 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Very unoriginal of me but it was how I felt at the time ( still do somedays)
Plus it wouldn't let me pick thissucksass
Me-BS 35
Him-FWH 40
Dday-7-6-13
EA-1yr
PA sex 3-4times over three months during the EA
Hope2B ( member #40474) posted at 10:09 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
My user name, which was too long, was going to be this:
Hope2BeNotVomitingAllTheTime His A made me so sick to my stomach, and vomiting is a normal reaction to me during times of great emotional distress (the death of a person or dog beloved to me, the death of our marriage).
Now, depending on how I'm feeling, it might be something like these:
Hope2BeFeelingBetterOneOfTheseDays
Hope2BeRippingHimANewOneBecauseHeIsStillSoStupid
Hope2BeBetter
Hope2B(fill-in the rest)
Sometimes, I'm just Hope.
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013Trickle Truth/DDays: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
cancuncrushed ( member #28156) posted at 10:16 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
He was already working out of state, early in our marriage. I was having suspicions, and he planned my all time dream trip to cancun. Took the children. It was a dream come true. And he spent his time chasing and trying to be near or with a young 20 something girl. It was my first real look at seeing it happen right before my eyes. Our kids were 5 and 10. ANd they were also watching. it crushed me.
LonelySilhouette ( member #39502) posted at 10:21 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
My picture was in the paper once, and I was a silhouette shovelling snow in a storm and the caption underneath said Lonely Silhouette. I thought it fit for here.
Me - 49 (BS)
Him - 51 (WH with "8 or 9" prostitutes)
Married 30 years, give or take a few weeks here and there
D-Day - May 4, 2013
Discovered an EA going on since 2010 around that time, too. NC in place now.
TheAmazingWondertwin ( member #40769) posted at 10:22 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
My WH and I always loved the old justice league cartoons. They had the Wondertwins- a brother and sister that would clink their magic rings together and change shapes to stop the bad guys.
One of them could become anything water related- the other could be any animal. I will demonstrate-
There's a fire. They clink their magic rings and say "Wondertwins- Activate!" One twin says "shape of... A bucket of water" the other days "shape of .... a monkey!" Then the monkey grabs the bucket of water and puts out the flames. Problem solved!
It was our thing. Anytime we had a problem, we would come up with a plan of action. If we both agreed it was a good plan, we would clink our wedding rings and say "Wondertwins - activate!"
Yes... We are nerds. It was one of the reasons we ended up together.
We have done it since before we were married and it has always gotten us through tough times- well, mostly. My wondertwin counterpart stopped clinking rings with me for a bit.
But we are back on track and now... Clinking our rings is what we do when we have just finished a great R conversation and are both ready to step back into real life.
Just call me Wonder
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.
The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.
Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017
Goosee1 ( new member #41122) posted at 10:45 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
It's a play on my name. My name is not even spelled remotely close to "Goo-see" but everyone seems to want to pronounce it that way.
Either "Goose", "Goo-see" or "Gee-see", somehow.
90Worthless90 ( new member #39855) posted at 10:48 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
Me: 23
Him: 29
Together 6 years.
DS: 2yrs
Ow: 18 at the time. Our son's "God sister"
Doomsday: November 2nd 2012. A couple of days before our sons birthday
MakingLemonade ( member #41143) posted at 10:54 PM on Tuesday, October 29th, 2013
I try to be hopeful. Given the lemons we've been dealt, what else is there to do but make lemonade?
Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween
surviving1963 ( member #40393) posted at 12:29 AM on Wednesday, October 30th, 2013
Cuz sometimes I am barely surviving. Just existing.
Me: 54
WH: 54
Married 34 years.
D-Days 3-4-12, 8-19-12
4 sons, 3 daughters
9 grandkids
D final Oct 2015
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