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How did you pick your user name?

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Clarrissa ( member #21886) posted at 2:01 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

tesla, is that a diss of Thomas Edison? After all, you've told so many stories of how "brilliant" your ex is...

BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:27 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

Tesla, yours has always been one to my favorite usernames, and I just assumed it came from Edison's idiocacy... Glad to hear it does!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:27 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

Tesla, yours has always been one to my favorite usernames, and I just assumed it came from Edison's idiocacy... Glad to hear it does!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 2:33 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

Long story for a full explanation. No previous user names allowed, had to be something non pathetic or I knew I would stop logging in, had to be something I could personally relate to (genealogy), found a folklore reference to one of the norse gods having a cheating wife as well...

Now it helps to announce to everyone my godlike qualities, namely that I am arrogant, vain, petty, and vindictive.

Yes, but how (and this has been debated among a few of us ) do you PRONOUNCE aesir?

My guess is "AYE SIR". AmIRight?

{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 4:59 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

I think it is pronounced the same as the cheap laptops.

I also spelled it wrong because my keyboard does not have Æ.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 5:54 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

Oh. I thought it was Ass-er.

My name pretty much explains itself, I think.

ETA: Waywardon agrees with the Acer pronunciation.

[This message edited by ThoughtIKnewYa at 12:14 AM, September 16th (Monday)]

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 7:17 AM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

TIKY, it only gets pronounced that way when somebody calls me wise.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 2:42 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

FWS was a Military Dog Handler in the Air Force. They have a saying "Once a K9 always a K9".

k9

BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

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Mr. Kite ( member #28840) posted at 11:06 PM on Monday, September 16th, 2013

While registering for this site I was listening to the Beatles 'Being For The Benefit Of Mr. Kite.'

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCiG7xoEb2Y

It always struck me as such a sad, surreal song and it fit for the mood I was in at the time.

I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what not to do.

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RedRose ( member #39584) posted at 2:59 AM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013

After reading for months, I registered a few days after our anniversary. I was looking at the 14 red roses WH had delivered on our anniversary, so picked that as my name.

A month later, I found out he had talked to her on our anniversary (and every other day since Dday 2) - and now hate the name.

BW-37
WH - 38
2.5 year LTA
2nd A 2/20/16

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RiotGrrrl ( member #9046) posted at 4:42 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013

I didn't want to be sad/broken, etc. for years to come, and I was pretty angry and kept thinking "who is angry yet not a victim?" and thought of riot grrrls

The spelling echoes how much I was grrrr-ing my way through life then.

:)

RG

Me: BS (44)
Him: WS (45)
Married: Six years, D Day 11/8/05
Divorce final: Nov 06
Two amazing sons: 16 and 14

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teach5 ( member #18445) posted at 4:48 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013

I have no imagination- I am a teacher and I had 5 kids.

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cardnial ( member #40382) posted at 5:11 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013

I picked the name Cardinal because it was my mothers favorite bird.My mom died 2 years ago and at Christmas time I put a little cardinal on her grave. I also LOVE the color red. I was pretty messed up the night I joined this club of wonderful people. I had been in bed crying for 3 days, my eyes were swollen shut. I had a couple/few glasses of wine and spelled cardinal wrong. I spelled it cardinal. Oh well, true story.

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sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 2:39 AM on Thursday, September 19th, 2013

My dogs names are Sparky and Sable. Sadly, Sable has since passed from cancer.

D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

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DWBH ( member #35512) posted at 7:11 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

Don't Wanna Be Here

Me: BH, 51
Her: FWW, 50 (ThornyRose)
M: 21 years, together 25
2 Daughters: 23 and 21
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 7:17 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

I've always felt that life can be very good and simple, that people are the one that makes it more complicated than it has to be. Hence I felt I am simple cause I feel it's really easy to understand that for every action there are consequences. Whereas if my FWH was ever to join I would've told him to use "Complicated".

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 10:14 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

I am SO boring.

HFSSC= My initials and my state of residence.

I bet if you think really hard you can guess how JM picked his name. (JMSSC)

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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41andthankful ( member #38650) posted at 11:56 PM on Monday, September 23rd, 2013

I signed up 1 month after dday. My bday was coming up and I was just thankful to get to see another one.

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boontje ( member #33247) posted at 4:15 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

My childhood nickname, translated to Dutch. If my H ever reads or joins, he would know me in an instant.

Me: BS
Dday: June 2011

Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don't have the strength.

--Theodore Roosevelt

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:30 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

Don't Wanna Be Here

That makes a lot more sense than any of my guesses, DWBH.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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