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Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 3:41 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 3:43 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 3:49 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Thanks Karmahappens.
I am a good girl....but I'm also embracing the don't take crap side of me.
JellyGirl84 ( member #41717) posted at 3:50 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Ohhhhh this is just so epic. I have the same fighter personality as you and I wish I wouldn't have been blindsided by the A because if I had any inkling about it, I'd have gathered evidence and similarly rocked, hard core!
What was said between you and ex-Butt Plug?
[This message edited by JellyGirl84 at 9:51 PM, March 10th (Monday)]
BW, 35
Dday in Nov. '13
Divorced in June '14
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 4:02 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Mr. butt plug didn't like that I divorced his sorry ass.
He should be happy I didn't fight for his lazy boy chair in the divorce. 
kayaker55 ( member #41617) posted at 4:11 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Just found this post Karmita.
I am in a messy sit with my SAWH but read thru all the pages of your post and just wanna say YOU GO GIRL. You are inspiring....and amusing.
Thanks and hugs.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:12 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Congratulations! So much to celebrate. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 4:20 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Sending a big hug and raising my glass to all you sweet people.
I feel good and I just want to say that as much as we are brought down to never give up on loving ourselves,
I'm scared...but that won't stop me from facing my fears.
I chose to be happy...and I will be because I want it so bad.
hear-me-roar ( member #17962) posted at 5:31 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Karmita - I have enjoyed your divorce so much! Your story is a good laugh to say good-night on. I like the way you go through life with a humorous rumble. I'm sure with a dash of down sometimes. Peace to you.
There once was a girl called Karmita
Of the likes, there was no one as sweeta.
Bought a Butt-Plug for him
Said, the marriage will end
Adios - and I hope not to see ya
DejaVuu ( member #34720) posted at 6:47 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Karmanita,
Your courage, your humor, your strength ~ all give those of us out here still struggling... hope.
I hope your days ahead will be the best of your life.
I raise my glass to you!
Me: BS | Him: WS
Three amazing daughters
D-Day: Too many to post :/
It is only in our darkest hours that we may discover the true strength of the brilliant light within ourselves that can never, ever, be dimmed.
~Doe Zantamata
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 7:02 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Sounds like you are doing well Karmita. You have shown incredible strength through it all.
Congrats on the divorce, hope the BF is dreamy and treats you like the special person you are.
I would have offered him a tissue but instead handed him a roll of toilet paper because he's full of shit.
^^ that made me laugh out loud . One of the best lines ever!
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 7:07 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
I am so happy that you are charing forward and leaving the nightmare behind.
Wishing you years of the happiness you so deserve,
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Lola88 ( member #41540) posted at 8:52 AM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
Congratulations on your divorce from Butt plug, and love and good wishes for a happy and successful future!
I loved this thread - only found it after a recommendation - and I've read it right through.
Great reaction x
LivinginLimbo ( member #35004) posted at 12:45 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
You are amazing!! Now that the Butt Plug has been permanently removed, I wish you all the best.
BS - 65
WH - 63
Married 37 years
D-Day 2/12/12
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.
NeverAgain2013 ( member #38121) posted at 1:20 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
My ex and Hauren broke up...
The HELL you say!
You mean, their oh so special looooooove wasn't forged by the heavens and the universe to last for eternity?????
Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 4:40 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
It's tragic that their one of a kind...most greatest love of all time is now dust.
I read their e-mails and texts and their chemistry and love was expressed with such poetic words.
Words like....
I want to suck your dick...
I love it when you suck my dick....
Shakespeare had nothing on them
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:42 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
brokengirl37 ( member #42530) posted at 5:49 PM on Tuesday, March 11th, 2014
YOU ROCK!!!
Wishing you the best FOREVER!!
Me: 40
WH : 42
2 Boys Age 12, 16
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker
PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 6:18 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
(((Karmita)))
Your strength and heart are truly amazing.
And you totally rock those bitch boots! 
Wishing you all the best!!
Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled
Honey Badger don't care. - Randall
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:28 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Great to hear from you.
Congrats on your new life.
I hope you have found your happy without a man. It's great you are dating, but having your happy without one makes you a whole lot less likely to EVER put up with an ounce of that crap again.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
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