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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 8:36 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
So happy you landed on your feet! 
Strength and Beauty, that is what you are.
And this:
Mr. butt plug didn't like that I divorced his sorry ass.
He should be happy I didn't fight for his lazy boy chair in the divorce.
I see that your humor is still intact! You Go Miss!!!
Enjoy your cute new guy! 
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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Uhtred ( member #40392) posted at 10:15 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
First time seeing this thread and all I can say is wow! What a damn fine job you did to pull all that together!
Me: BH 38years old DDay 4-29-13Her: FWW 39
4everfaithful83 ( member #41761) posted at 10:39 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Also my first time seeing this post and all I have to say is WOW!
You are a remarkably strong woman! Such awesomeness! Love it!
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 36
1 doggie
DDay: June 24th, 2013
DDay 2 : August 22nd,2017
Left him August 26th, 2017
DTERMINED2SURVIV ( member #42294) posted at 12:50 AM on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
LOL...the shakespear comment!! 
Thats something I would have said.
MammaMia ( member #34030) posted at 4:48 AM on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
Karmita:
Good luck to you; you deserve it.
So your ex and his dream girl broke up? Where is the love? That's why they say that secrecy is what makes affairs so exciting. once it's out in the open, they both show their real face and it is not a pretty picture.
And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 10:37 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
Bumped into the ex-OW at restaurant this weekend. I asked my waitress to send her a drink from me and my cute boyfriend. It was a drink called the red headed slut.
I think she got the message.
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 10:53 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
This is the first time I have seen this post and all I can say is "Do those boots come in my size?" YOU ROCK!
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 11:20 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
You continue to amaze me with your strength and wit. I am glad that things are going so well for you. Keep us informed when you can. We anxiously await your humorous posts.
Be happy.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 11:33 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
Thanks ladies
I wear a size 7 bitch boots if you want to borrow them.
The red headed slut, I think wears a size ten. I pretty sure her IQ and her feet are the same size.
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 11:36 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
You are a classy and witty woman. I suspect the symbolism of the drink went over the head of the RH S.
Be well.
Me-BS-71 in May HIM-SAFWH-74 I just wanted a normal life.Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 11:43 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
Karmita, I am dying to know who got custody of the butt-plug in the breakup. I mean, inquiring minds wish to know.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 12:29 AM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
Well...I offered the butt plug to the OW, shit included. Even gift wrapped it for her.
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 1:33 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
Wow Karmita. I just read through this entire thread and you have made my day. What a kick ass way of dealing with your xWH.
Glad to see that you are doing so well know.
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
Scorned Volcano ( new member #25345) posted at 2:07 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
I sort of want to know what is in the 'red headed slut' drink.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 2:14 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
Now that is a new way of looking at the 180. Seriously though, I hope you are doing ok. I am proud of you and extremely envious that I never did that. Way to go!!
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
nekonamida ( member #42956) posted at 2:20 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
Just read your thread today. It was AMAZING! You're incredibly strong to end it that way and now you're reaping the benefits of your new life while your ex throws himself a pity party. Congrats and keep up the good work!
dontknowwhyme ( member #21587) posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
You are amazing. Made my day. Good luck with cute guy. You sound like you would be a blast to hang with.
BS 38
FWW 37 (fireandice)
Married 13 Years - Together 20
D-Day1:Jan 08 (EA OM#1)
D-Day2:8-15-08 (EA/PA OM#2)
DS12, DS9
D-Day3:11-3-10
Divorced 1-27-11
Remember, you don't drown from being thrown in the water. You drown from staying in it.
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 4:59 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
Stupid OW. Did she SAY anything to you when you sent her the drink?? God I hope she turned green, and slinked out.
Karmita (original poster member #40183) posted at 5:24 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
When I spotted the ex-ow ,( they broke up after I dumped his ass), at this restaurant I told my very nice waitress that my ex husband's trashy OW was sitting across the room and could she suggest a fitting drink I could send over to her.
Our waitress was fun and also despises cheaters and suggested the red headed slut cocktail. It's Jagermister, peach schnapps and cranberry juice.
I made sure that my name was mentioned as the red headed slut cocktail was delivered to her. Me and my cute boyfriend raised our glasses as she was presented the drink.
Poor thing....must of lost her appetite, she left shortly after.
It's a tasty drink...too bad it didn't include exlax.
freeatlast72 ( member #42758) posted at 5:45 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2014
First time reading this post!! YOU GO GIRL!!! I wish I saw this post earlier-- it would have given me some ideas
BS:42(me)
Kids: DD7
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years
DIVORCED!!!
You can't rationalize irrational behavior.
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